Dysfunctional families affect the quality of life of each of the members, especially the children. These troubled relationships cause chronic feelings of guilt, shame, or worthlessness, as well as attachment issues.
The teenager who shared her story on Reddit some time ago comes from such a family where the father is basically absent from his children’s lives despite living under one roof with them.
She took to the Reddit thread AITA to explain that it was her mother who took care of her and her siblings while the father wasn’t really involved in their upbringing.
One day, as he got home and left his mobile phone on the table, OP could read the message that he received at that moment which said, “last night was amazing, can’t wait to see you again” and some emojis.
After thinking about it for a short time, she decided to tell her mother that her dad was cheating on her. “She got pretty emotional which I felt bad about, and told me not to worry and that I should just worry about being a kid and let her take care of the rest, so I just let it go cause I didn’t want to hurt her more.”
One evening, the entire family gathered for dinner at OP’s grandfathers. There, her cousin shared the news that she started a new job. Everyone was pleased with the news, but then OP’s father told OP that she should be more like her cousin because she wasn’t any good according to him. But he didn’t stop there. In fact, he continued shaming OP telling her she should focus more on school and a lot more.
At one moment he mentioned that OP lacked respect for him, and that was the final straw.
At this point, OP had it enough. “Hard to respect you when you openly cheat on Mom and don’t even try to hide it,” she said in front of everyone.
The room went silent at first, but then her father started yelling both at her and her mother. The mom then took her kids and told her husband she shouldn’t be returning home.
Once home, OP started receiving text messages from her relatives who accused her of ruining the evening and the family. Her mom, however, told her “that she understood my frustration and I probably should have expressed it better privately but what’s done is done.”
Redditors were quick to comment that OP was NTA.
What are your thoughts on this?
Suri Cruise’s Recent Appearance Leaves People Worried — Everyone’s Asking One Thing
Suri, the 18-year-old daughter of Katie Holmes and Tom Cruise, has reached a significant milestone as she’s off to college. However, recent photos have swept the internet, revealing a vulnerable moment where she was seen breaking down in tears.
Suri was caught on camera experiencing a tearful and agitated episode in Brooklyn, New York. Photos revealed the teenager visibly upset during a phone conversation, shedding tears as she walked through the city streets.
At one point, she was seen with her head in her hand, crying into her phone. Even after the call ended, she continued wiping away tears.
The footage sparked concern online, with everyone asking the same question: “What happened?”
Despite the emotional moment, Cruise is on the brink of an exciting year. In a now-deleted clip from a fellow student’s online profile, Suri was seen wearing a Carnegie Mellon hoodie. While it hasn’t been confirmed, there is speculation that she may be considering a future in fashion or acting.
In a recent interview, her mother disclosed that she’s been engaging in various creative activities—such as joining a book club, taking dance classes, and painting—to keep herself busy as her daughter gets ready to start college.
Holmes noted, “Of course, I will miss the close proximity, but I’m really proud of her, and I’m happy.”
She continued, ’’I remember being this age, this time of beginnings. It’s exciting to learn about yourself, and I loved that time, so it makes me happy to think about it like that.’’
We’re sending Suri our best wishes as she begins her college adventure, and we look forward to watching her grow into an incredible woman.
No matter what she’s dealing with, she’s bound to come out on top, thanks to the strong and independent upbringing her mother provided.
If you’re interested in learning how Suri Cruise evolved from a highly privileged child into a down-to-earth teen, all thanks to her mom’s influence, don’t miss this article.
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