A 19 year old named Cristian walked in front of the judges and said he saw Ed Sheeran playing a show and wanted to be like him. Simon Cowell replied, “but you know with him it’s all about the songs?” Cristian replied, “I write songs myself” prompting Simon to ask, “Can we hear one of your songs?”. Slightly hesitantly, Cristian replies, “you can, yeah” and slowly added, “I’ve got a song that I wrote for my brother who passed away when I was only young”. Simon asked if he was sure he wanted to perform it and Cristian said, “I think I’m ready to.” He then showcased some of the most beautifully written lyrics heard in an audition leaving all the judges with a lump in their throat. Cristian’s heartfelt audition went on to receive over 14 million views as his authentic songwriting captured the hearts of millions. Watch video in comments below.
Talent shows are full of surprises and that is one of the reasons we get so addicted to them. We never know if that shy girl who’s trembling on the stage would be the next star, or if the boy who can’t wait to let his voice loose would get a pass for the next round. What we do know, however, is that some of the performances are so powerful they stay with us long after we see them.
When Christian Burrows took the stage of one of the most popular music talent shows, The X Factor, not many believed he would make many cry.
When Simon asked him what he prepared for them, Christian said he’d penned a song about the loss of his baby brother Nathan who passed away at just three months old.
“I’ve got a song that I wrote for my brother who passed away when I was only young,” he told Simon, who asked him if he was certain he wanted to perform such a personal and emotional song. Christian said he believed he was ready, but no one was prepared for what followed.
The lyrics of Thunder Buddy, which Christian performed in front of the entire nation, touched everyone’s heart.
Before his son saw the light of the day, Christian only performed it twice in his life; once for his mom and once for his dad.
He left the stage with four yeses and proud of his performance that left some of the judges in tears.
Following his appearance on the show, Christian spoke to Metro Online and shared the heartbreak his family suffered when his brother passed away. At the time, Christian was 2 and a half years old and although he doesn’t remember anything specifically, he said he couldn’t help but wonder what kind of relationship he and his late brother would have now.
You can see this young man’s performance in the video below.
Not everyone will understand.
Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship. However, when things start to feel off, it’s easy for doubts to take over. Recently, I found myself questioning my girlfriend’s behavior, and it all centered around her work schedule.
She works at a bank, which typically closes at 4:30 PM. However, she’s been coming home around 9:30 PM every night. At first, I didn’t think much of it—maybe she had extra work. But as days passed, the uneasiness grew. Was she really staying late for work, or was there something more?
I couldn’t shake off the feeling that something wasn’t right. Could she be lying? Was she seeing someone else? These thoughts kept running through my mind, making me question everything.
Jumping to Conclusions vs. Seeking the Truth
It’s human nature to assume the worst when things don’t add up. I had two choices:
- Let paranoia consume me and start making accusations.
- Communicate and seek clarity before making assumptions.
I chose the second option. Instead of letting suspicion take over, I decided to analyze the situation logically.
Understanding the Nature of Banking Jobs
One of the first things I did was research bank work schedules. Most banks do close by 4:30 PM, but that doesn’t mean employees leave at that time.
Here’s why bank employees might stay late:
Processing daily transactions and balancing accounts. Preparing reports for the next business day. Handling security checks and audits. Attending meetings and training sessions.
It turns out, overtime in the banking sector isn’t uncommon, especially for those in higher positions or involved in finance management.
Could this be why my girlfriend was getting home late? It was a strong possibility.
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The Importance of Communication
Instead of silently harboring doubts, I did what any rational partner should do—I talked to her.
I casually asked, “How was work today?” I listened carefully to what she said. I paid attention to her body language.
Turns out, she had been staying late to complete extra tasks and wasn’t intentionally hiding anything from me. It was just work—nothing more, nothing less.
That conversation saved me from unnecessary stress, doubt, and potential damage to our relationship.
Trust in a Relationship: A Two-Way Street
Many relationships fail not because of actual betrayal, but due to lack of trust and communication. My situation made me realize that:
Jumping to conclusions can ruin a good relationship. Communication is the only way to resolve doubts. Trust is built over time, and small doubts can weaken it.
Imagine if I had accused her of lying without any proof. It could have caused unnecessary fights and resentment.
What I Learned from This Experience
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Doubts are normal, but how you handle them matters. Being insecure and jumping to conclusions only leads to regret. Giving your partner the benefit of the doubt strengthens the relationship.
Instead of letting anxiety and overthinking control me, I chose understanding and trust. And guess what? I was wrong to assume the worst.
Final Thoughts: Not Everyone Will Understand
Some people may think, “If you’re doubting her, maybe there’s a reason.” But the truth is, sometimes our own insecurities create problems that don’t exist.
If something in your relationship feels off, don’t jump to accusations—instead, talk about it.
At the end of the day, trust and communication are the real secrets to a strong relationship. Without them, even the best relationships can fall apart.
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