Everyone has been guilty of giving compliments that turn out to be less-than-sincere upon closer inspection. However, backhanded “compliments” are some of the worst, especially since they’re disguised as sweet remarks. It’s important for friends to be honest with each other, of course, but couching hard truths in fake compliments is rarely the way to go. (Unless you’re auditioning for a Real Housewives franchise, of course, in which case you can carry on.) If you’re ever on the receiving end of a backhanded compliment from a friend, the real meaning might not even sink in until hours, or even days, later.
While backhanded compliments typically stem from the speaker’s own insecurities, that doesn’t make them any less hurtful, says Sherese Ezelle, LMHC, LCPC, a licensed behavioral therapist. And when they come from a friend, a backhanded compliment is likely to sting even more — and may even damage your relationship.
Backhanded compliments run the gamut from clueless comments to rude remarks, and can also be a form of microaggression, Ezelle says. If it seems like your pal has crossed a boundary, she recommends disputing their comment in the moment by calmly asking for more info. “More often than not, to challenge them on the spot allows for the individual delivering the ‘compliment’ a chance to defend or further explain their intent,” Ezelle tells Bustle. “You want to be sure to give an opportunity for conversation so that growth can happen and friendships can be preserved.”
Of course, different friendships have different dynamics. Some close friends tease each other mercilessly and, as long as everyone’s on the same page, it tends to be OK. That said, it’s alright to recognize when something feels more hurtful than funny, or more like passive-aggressiveness than silly banter, Ezelle says. If backhanded compliments seem to be a habit rather than an exception, you can always tell your friend to buzz off — or look for a new friend circle.
These 23 backhanded compliment examples can help remind you of what a barely-concealed dig really sounds like. That way, the next time your friend claims to love your outfit or announces that they find your apartment “cozy”, you’ll know exactly how to handle it.
1. “Your Instagram Makes You Seem So Fun!”
Why it’s backhanded: On the one hand, it’s good to know all your careful filtering and captioning haven’t been in vain. But when your friend says your Instagram seems fun, they may be implying that the real you is much less interesting than the image you’re trying to project.
How to respond: “Because I am fun!”
What they could have said instead: “I’m so inspired by the way you curate your feed. It really shows off your creative side.”
2. “You Look So Great In That Photo. I Can’t Even See Your Acne!”
Why it’s backhanded: The nice compliment is immediately weighed down by the acne comment. They’re basically saying you typically have a flaw, but in this photo, you only look great because that flaw is removed. “It would be particularly hurtful if you also had an insecurity about your complexion,” says Sarah Dumoff, LCSW, a psychotherapist and founder of private practice here/now.
How to respond: “Thanks. I love this picture too, though I feel good in photos even when my skin isn’t ‘perfect.’”
What they could have said instead: “Omg, you look amazing!”
3. “I Didn’t Expect You To Get The Job. Congratulations!”
Why it’s backhanded: When a friend makes a point of mentioning their low expectations, it takes away from their congratulations.
How to respond: “I worked really hard for this. Go me!”
What they could have said instead: “I was rooting for you and am so relieved it went well!”
4. “You’re So Independent. It’s No Wonder You Haven’t Found Someone Yet.”
Why it’s backhanded: Among all the things ambitious people are tired of hearing, this is probably the most common. In theory, such a remark compliments your sense of autonomy; in practice, it implies that your independence is driving potential significant others away. As an added bonus, it perpetuates the idea that you have to compromise your sense of independence in order to be attractive. Yikes.
How to respond: “Yup! And I’ll know someone’s right for me when they respect that.”
What they could have said instead: “If you ever want to get back into the dating pool, I know someone’s going to fall immediately for your drive.”
5. “I Love How You Don’t Care How You Come Across.”
Why it’s backhanded: Your friend may profess to love your devil-may-care attitude, but what they’re really saying is that they think you’re too “out there.” Either that, or they’re making a salty comment because they’re envious of your laid-back attitude.
How to respond: “Yes! It’s taken a lot of work to get my confidence to this level. I try not to focus on what others think anymore.”
What they could have said instead: “You always seem so confident and relaxed. Tell me all your secrets.”
6. “I Wish I Was As Chill As You About All This Clutter.”
Why it’s backhanded: The real translation may be, “Your place isn’t cleaned to my exact standards and I need you to know that.” Regardless of their intention, it’s rude to make comments when you’ve been invited into someone’s private space.
How to respond: “Really? What would you do differently?” Sometimes asking someone to explain their comment is a way to get them to pause, reflect, and realize they’re being mean.
What they could have said instead: “Thanks for having me over!”
7. “That New Haircut Looks So Much Better Than Your Old One.”
Why it’s backhanded: They’re right — your new ‘do does look fabulous. But no need to be rude about what you looked like literally an hour ago. It may also make you wonder how long they’ve secretly disliked your hair.
How to respond: “I’m all about changing up my look. I’ve loved all my hairstyles and this one’s great, too.”
What they could have said instead: “Wait, this so, so good.”
8. “I Love How You’ll Just Wear Anything.”
Why it’s backhanded: If you’re getting ready together, chances are this comment is constructive and your friend is trying to prevent you from leaving the house in a not-so-great look. If they make this comment once you’re already out, however, that’s when it’s officially rude — and it might even plant a seed of self-doubt that ruins your whole night.
How to respond: “Is that a hint? What’s wrong with my outfit?” You can be honest with each other, laugh it off, and ask if they’d like to offer some advice.
What they could have said instead: “Hold up, hold up. Do you still have those wide-leg pants? Those would be perfect for tonight.”
9. “I Would Never Be Able To Pull Off That Outfit!”
Why it’s backhanded: While it sounds like they’re admiring your style, your friend is likely saying they wouldn’t be caught dead in anything similar.
How to respond: “Thanks, yea. I’ve been feelin’ myself lately. I’m all about the cargo pants trend. Can you believe they’re back?” This is a way to brush off their comment and show your friend that your “weird” look is deliberate — and fashionable.
What they could have said: “Ugh, I can’t keep up with trends. Can you share your Pinterest with me?”
10. “You’re So Charming When You Make An Effort.”
Why it’s backhanded: Great! You’re being charming and suave right now. Mission accomplished. But what about when you’re lounging in your soft pants? Your friend is kind of saying that you’re not usually this charismatic.
How to respond: “I don’t always feel the need to be ‘on’ around my close friends, but sure, I can pull out the charm when need be.” You can also mention that their comment was hurtful. Remember, when in doubt, call it out.
What they could have said: “Bestie, you’re a shining star of wit and charm.”
11. “You Look So Professional With Your Hair Straight.”
Why it’s backhanded: Talk about microaggressive “complimenting” styles. On one end of the spectrum, they’re announcing that they believe you usually look bad or unkempt. On the other, they’re saying curly or natural hair is somehow unprofessional. And that’s not OK.
How to respond: “Well, I’m glad to know that you think my natural hair makes me look so unprofessional.”
What they could have said instead: Nothing. Or, “Did you do something different with your hair?”
12. “I Wish I Didn’t Have Any Responsibilities Like You.”
Why it’s backhanded: People might be inclined to say this to their friends who live with their parents or to those who don’t have kids. Living rent-free or child-free can be less stressful than many alternatives, but that doesn’t mean anyone’s life is totally carefree or without responsibility. Saying otherwise is passive-aggressive at worst and presumptuous at best.
How to respond: “Oh wow, do I make it look that way? I have a million plates spinning at once. How are things going on your end?” This will get to the real root of the issue, which is that they’re overwhelmed.
What they could have said instead: “Do you have any spare time to listen to me vent? I’ve been so stressed lately.”
13. “Your Place Is So Cozy.”
Why it’s backhanded: Calling someone’s apartment “cozy” is often code for “super tiny” or even “so tiny I don’t understand how you live here.” It’s also condescending since not everyone can afford a sprawling abode — or wants to live in one. It just isn’t what you want to hear when you’ve invited folks over for a housewarming.
How to respond: “Thank you! I put a lot of work into the decor. Wait, did you see my record player over here?”
What they could have said instead: “Thanks so much for having me over! I always love how you decorate. Oh! I brought a quiche.”
14. “You’re Coping With This So Much Better Than I Thought You Would.”
Why it’s backhanded: You’re literally on your couch in a onesie surrounded by tissues and rubbing at your puffy eyes — and this is better than what your friend thought? How did they expect you to deal with a breakup? You might not want to know.
How to respond: If you can muster some cheekiness, say, “Thanks for the vote of confidence, pal.” If you’re too upset say, “I just need someone to listen to me, if that’s OK.” Also, side note: If a certain friend isn’t supporting you the right way during a tough time, try reaching out to someone else. Another friend, family member, or therapist may be a better bet.
What they could have said instead: “What you’re going through is one of the toughest things ever. You’re handling it so well, but it’s also OK if you need to take more time for yourself.”
15. “You Look So Much More Awake With Makeup.”
Why it’s backhanded: Your friend may be trying to give you a compliment, but this one sends the message that you usually look bad or tired whenever you deign to go outside without blush or mascara. It might be their way of judging — or they simply might not realize why it’s a rude thing to say.
How to respond: “Wait, what do I normally look like?”
What they could have said instead: “I need that blush. Where’d you get it?”
16. “You Look Refreshed Today. I Almost Didn’t Recognize You!”
Why it’s backhanded: According to psychologist Dr. Roberta T. Ballard, Ph.D., this is a common backhanded compliment. It’s something you might hear from an office friend who means well, but doesn’t realize they’re implying you usually look messy or tired. Not to mention, it’s never smart to comment on someone’s appearance, especially if you don’t know what’s going on with their health or personal life.
How to respond: “Thanks. Guess it was that extra cup of coffee I had today.” And leave it at that.
What they could have said instead: “That color blue looks amazing on you.”
17. “You’re So Chill In Your Relationship.”
Why it’s backhanded: “It may be innocent admiration of your patience in your relationship, or it may feel like something else is being implied,” says Lauren Spinella, LPC, a licensed mental health therapist and owner of Peaceful Path Counseling. Are they really impressed by your patience during a tough time in your relationship, or are they implying you’re a doormat?
How to respond: “Do you feel like I’m too chill?” According to Spinella, it’s totally fair to ask for some genuine clarification in a non-accusatory way. That’ll open the door to a deeper convo.
What they could have said instead: “I really admire how patient you are. I’m also a little concerned that you’re dealing with so much and want to make sure you’re OK.”
18. “You Look Great For Your Age!”
Why it’s backhanded: While this one’s often said with the best of intentions, it’s steeped in ageism and the idea that you can only look good if you look young. “Sometimes the person giving the backhanded compliment might not have the intention of saying something hurtful, however, the impact is still there,” says therapist Emily Sharp, MA, LCAT, ATR-BC, RYT-200.
How to respond: “I’m sure you didn’t intend to, but when you make comments about my appearance it makes me uncomfortable.” Sharp says this will get the message across in a diplomatic way.
What they could have said instead: “You look great!”
19. “You’re So Articulate.”
Why it’s backhanded: Calling you articulate is a way to express shock that you said something intelligent. It has the same vibe as, “Wow, I didn’t expect you to be good at this.” The “you’re so articulate” comment also comes with a long history of racism, especially when aimed at Black people, Ballard says.
How to respond: “What did I say that surprised you?” Again, asking someone to explain their comment is a subtle way of calling them out.
What they could have said instead: Nothing. Or something like, “It’s always such a pleasure to talk to you. I’m glad we ran into each other.”
20. “You’re So Pretty. I Don’t Get Why You’re Still Single.”
Why it’s backhanded: This backhanded compliment can send your brain swirling through a list of possible meanings. Are they saying something else is wrong with you? Or that you’re incomplete until you meet a partner? Whatever it is, it won’t feel good.
How to respond: “How are the two related?”Depending on the type of relationship you have with your friend, you can straight up call them out or ignore them, Sharp says. “You can also respond to a portion of the backhanded compliment that feels genuine, in order to maintain positivity,” she tells Bustle. “Everyone handles these situations differently, but the important part is validating your feelings for yourself.”
What they could have said instead: “We haven’t chatted about our dating lives in forever! Are you talking to anyone or nah?”
21. “I Love Your Nails. It Must Be Nice To Have So Much Extra Time In Your Day To Pamper Yourself.”
Why it’s backhanded: “This may be an innocent comment,” Spinella tells Bustle. “But it’s also understandable for someone to be put off by hearing it. You might think, are they implying that I don’t have a lot going on or that I am prioritizing the wrong things?”
How to respond: “What do you mean?” While it’s often possible to glean the intent of a backhanded compliment, Spinella says it’s best to ask for clarification, especially if the words hurt.
What they could have said instead: “I love how you did your nails! It can be so hard to prioritize self-care with a busy schedule. Maybe you can help me do the same?”
22. “You Look So Comfortable!”
Why it’s backhanded: This isn’t a real compliment, says wellness coach Dr. Cali Estes. Instead of saying what they really think, it’s a roundabout way for your friend to indicate that they don’t like your outfit or that they think it’s inappropriate for a situation.
How to respond: “Thanks! I’m so grateful to be comfortable so I can fully enjoy myself at this wedding.”
What they could have said instead: “I love your outfit. I really wish I would have chosen something more comfortable, too.”
23. “You’re Incredible For Working That Hard! I Could Never Leave My Cat Alone All Day.”
Why it’s backhanded: While it feels like they’re complimenting your work ethic, what they’re actually doing is commenting on your choices as a caretaker. This one’s also commonly aimed at new moms, according to Dr. Anisha Patel-Dunn, DO, a psychiatrist and chief medical officer of LifeStance Health.
How to respond: “What do you mean by that?” Patel-Dunn recommends asking for more info. For instance, “Ouch, I feel a bit hurt by that comment. Can you clarify what you mean because this is what I heard…”
What they could have said instead: “You’re the queen of getting stuff done. How do you do it?”
3 Amazing Inheritance Stories with Unexpected Twists
When loved ones pass on, they often leave behind more than possessions. In these three stories, unexpected inheritances uncovered surprising secrets, painful truths, and life-changing lessons, proving that true legacy isn’t always material.
These remarkable inheritance stories reveal twists that brought life’s greatest lessons. They proved that the most valuable gifts can’t be measured in money.
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1. I Inherited Grandma’s Old Clocks & My Greedy Brother Got the House
I adored my grandma, Marlene, more than anything. Until a year ago, I’d lived with her, sharing her cozy little house filled with her collection of old clocks and stories. She was my safe haven and my biggest fan.
But last year, I had to move away because of college.
One evening, I got a call from her. Her voice sounded soft and frail.
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“Linda, sweetheart, could you come over? I don’t think I have much time left,” she said, almost in a whisper.
My heart sank. “Oh, Granny, don’t talk like that! I’ll apply for leave right away and be there in a couple of days. Don’t you worry, okay?”
When I arrived at her house three days later, my brother Brian was already there. He was a few years older than me, with a sharp edge to his personality.
I immediately rushed to hug her upon entering the house.
“I’m here, Grandma,” I whispered, feeling an ache in my heart.
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“Oh, my sweet girl,” she smiled, looking so tired yet so happy.
Meanwhile, Brian glanced around with a frown.
“At least you could have kept the house clean, Grandma. It’s so… dusty,” he muttered, brushing an imaginary speck off his shoulder.
Oh please, Brian! I thought. Grandma needs care, not criticism.
I just rolled my eyes and ignored him because I didn’t want to create a scene in front of Grandma.
A few minutes later, she sat us down in her small living room and handed each of us an envelope.
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Inside was $5,000.
“Linda, Brian, I wanted to give you both something,” she said, her voice trembling slightly.
I took her hand. “Granny, you didn’t have to do this. I’m here to spend time with you, not for money.”
Brian, on the other hand, scowled. “Is this all I get? Seriously?”
Before Grandma could respond, he stormed outside, slamming the door behind him.
He’s crazy, I thought.
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I stayed by her side over the next few days, cleaning the house, cooking fresh meals, and fixing things up. She had been living on stale food, and there were cracks and leaks that hadn’t been tended to in years.
“You don’t have to do so much, Linda. I don’t want to take up all your time and money,” she said, shaking her head as I patched a leak.
I grinned, holding her hand. “Grandma, I know how much you’ve always wanted Grandpa’s house to feel like home again. I had some savings, so I thought, why not? Are you happy now, Grandma? Is this how you remember it with Grandpa?”
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“Oh, Linda,” she smiled as tears trickled down her cheeks. “Yes. Yes, it’s beautiful. Thank you.”
Then, one quiet morning, I found her peacefully gone in her sleep. The house felt hollow without her laughter and warmth.
Meanwhile, Brian didn’t even come to the funeral. It hurt me deeply, but I tried to focus on honoring her memory.
Two weeks later, we were called to the lawyer’s office for the reading of her will. Brian and I sat in silence as the lawyer began.
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“Brian,” he announced, “you have been left the house.”
Brian smirked, clearly pleased. He always had his eyes on the house.
Then, the lawyer turned to me, smiling gently. “Linda, your grandmother left you her clocks.”
“The… clocks?” I asked, feeling a bit deflated.
He handed me five old, rusty clocks, each with a dull patina. My face flushed with embarrassment as Brian snickered.
But then the lawyer handed me an envelope.
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“Your grandmother loved you more than anyone, Linda,” he said softly.
Curious, I opened the envelope. The note inside was in Grandma’s handwriting:
Linda, never underestimate these rusty old clocks!
They are 100-year-old classic timepieces that belonged to your grandfather. Each piece is crafted from rare, exquisite metal and worth about $40,000!
Everyone gets what they truly deserve, my dear. I’m glad you got only the best.
With all my love, Granny Marlene.
My heart raced as I read her words.
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“She left nearly $200,000 hidden in these seemingly worn-out clocks,” the lawyer smiled.
I looked at the clocks as tears blurred my vision. Meanwhile, Brian rose from his seat.
“What? Those things are worth that much?” he asked, his face pale.
I smiled through my tears. “Yes, Brian. Grandma knew exactly what she was doing.”
I clutched one of the clocks close to my chest, and felt as its rhythm synced with my heartbeat. It felt almost as if Grandma was still with me.
Thank you, Grandma, I thought as I walked out of the office with her beloved clocks. Thank you for giving me a piece of your heart to carry forever.
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2. Grandma’s Will Left Me Nothing Until I Discovered Her Secret Plan
My grandma was everything to me. Growing up, I spent every free moment on her farm, learning the rhythm of the land and the needs of the animals. I enjoyed everything from feeding the chickens to watching the crops grow.
Meanwhile, my sister, Felicity, only visited the farm to click beautiful photos for her social media.
So, when Grandma passed, it felt like a piece of me went with her. Losing her so suddenly was a shock I wasn’t ready for.
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Shortly after her passing, I got a call from her lawyer. “Diana, we’re reading the will tomorrow at noon. You and Felicity need to be there.”
My heart pounded as I arrived at his office, Felicity already seated with her typical annoyed expression.
The lawyer cleared his throat, then handed me an envelope. It was a letter from Grandma.
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My dearest Diana,
If you’re reading this, the time has come for a choice. I know you love this farm, and it has been a part of you as much as it was of me. But I needed to be sure that its true caretaker would emerge. I have left the farm to Felicity, but I have also granted you the right to live here as long as you wish.
As long as you remain on the farm, it cannot be sold. Please be patient, my dear. The second part of my will shall be revealed in three months.
Love,
Grandma.
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I swallowed hard, confusion mixing with pain. Why didn’t she leave the farm to me outright? Didn’t she trust me?
Still, I respected her wishes and resolved to stay on the farm. Felicity, of course, had other plans.
“Diana,” she sneered the following week, waving a check in my face. “Why don’t you just take this and leave? You can’t live out here forever.”
I shook my head. “This is what Grandma wanted. I’m staying.”
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“Get over it, Diana!” she snapped. “Go home!”
Her frustration turned into an all-out war a few days later when the farmhouse caught fire. I stood there, helpless, as flames devoured my memories.
Jack, the farm’s caretaker, held my arm to steady me. “It’s okay, Diana. We can rebuild.”
“But the house… everything’s gone,” I cried.
A few hours later, Jack and I saw Felicity hovering near the wreckage. She seemed too pleased for someone who lost a major part of her property.
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“What are you doing here?” I asked. “When did you come?”
“I just… arrived,” she stammered. “But, uh, the house is gone. So what’s left here for you, Diana?”
“What do you mean?” I asked.
“You should leave before you lose your job over this obsession!”
“I won’t leave,” I replied. “I’m not going anywhere.”
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Jack took me aside afterward, gently nudging me to consider leaving, but I couldn’t. Grandma’s memory was tied to every inch of that farm.
Understanding my stubbornness, Jack kindly offered me a room at his house, which was nearby.
I spent the next few months living there, visiting the farm every day. Even after I lost my job, all I cared about was keeping Grandma’s legacy alive.
When three months finally passed, the lawyer called us in again to read the second part of the will.
I took a deep breath as the lawyer opened a sealed envelope and began to read aloud.
“My dear Felicity and Diana,” he began.
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“If you’re hearing this, the time has come for the farm to find its true guardian. Felicity, I know this may come as a surprise, but I always intended for the farm to belong to the one who truly cares for it. As far as I know, Diana has taken responsibility for managing the farm, so if no one objects…”
Felicity’s face paled. She cut him off, shouting, “This is ridiculous! Diana burned down the house! She’s a failure!”
But Jack, who had accompanied me, stood up calmly.
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“I think it’s time we tell the truth,” he said, handing the lawyer a receipt. “I saw Felicity near the farm on the day of the fire. She was seen purchasing gasoline from the local store that afternoon.”
The lawyer looked over the receipt, then leveled a firm gaze at Felicity. “This evidence suggests otherwise, Ms. Felicity.”
“That’s not true,” she lied, but she couldn’t hide the truth for too long.
“Fine! Yes, it was me!” she snapped and then looked at me. “Somebody had to help her move on!”
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“You’ll have to face some legal consequences for your actions, Ms. Felicity,” the lawyer said.
Then, he turned to me and said, “Diana, the farm is now officially yours.”
I stood there with eyes wide open as I realized what Grandma had done. She had known all along.
By giving Felicity control with conditions, she had drawn out Felicity’s true nature, leaving the farm in the hands of the person who would care for it.
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3. I Was Upset That My Grandfather Only Left Me an Old Apiary until I Looked into the Beehives
When I was fifteen, my grandfather, David, passed away. I was devastated. I never thought my loving, wise Grandpa, who had raised me with Aunt Daphne, would leave me so soon.
He’d always been there, filling our home with stories, patience, and life lessons I’d only half-listened to. Losing him left a hole I couldn’t understand, and a part of me expected his will might hold some comfort.
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At the reading, my older brother, Richard, inherited nearly a million dollars.
I felt my heart sink when the lawyer only handed me an envelope. Inside was a letter from Grandpa.
My dearest Chloe,
I know you might feel let down, but please hear me out. I’m leaving you my apiary with al the beehives I’ve spent years tending to. It may not seem like much now, but trust me, you’ll see its true value in time. With patience and care, it will teach you things far more valuable than money.
With all my love,
Grandpa.
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“An apiary?” I muttered.
The impatient teenager that I was couldn’t understand why Grandpa wanted me to have that old collection of beehives.
Days passed, and I ignored the apiary. I shrugged it off whenever Aunt Daphne nudged me to check on it.
I couldn’t be bothered, especially with a dozen other things on my mind.
Finally, Aunt Daphne put her foot down.
“You’re grounded, young lady!” she declared one evening.
“Grounded?” I asked. “For what?”
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“For shirking responsibility,” she replied, her eyes narrowing. “Your grandpa wanted this for you, Chloe. It’s about responsibility, not bees.”
“But Aunt Daphne, I’m scared of getting stung!” I protested.
“You’ll have protective gear,” she replied. “A little fear is normal, but you can’t let it stop you.”
Reluctantly, I went to the apiary, wearing thick gloves and a bee suit, feeling ridiculous and slightly terrified. As I opened the first hive, I was hit with the sweet scent of honey.
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I hesitated, but Aunt Daphne’s words about responsibility echoed in my mind. Slowly, I started harvesting the honey, trying not to flinch when a bee buzzed too close.
Then, as I lifted a hive frame, I noticed a weather-beaten plastic bag tucked inside.
What’s this? I thought.
I quickly took it out and found a faded, hand-drawn map with strange markings. I immediately recognized Grandpa’s handwriting on it.
Curiosity trumped fear, and I followed the map, leading me through a small wooded area behind our house.
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I stumbled over roots, swatted at mosquitoes, and nearly tripped a few times. Each time, Grandpa’s voice floated through my thoughts.
“Stay calm, Chloe. Rushing never gets you where you need to go.”
Taking a deep breath, I pressed on, eventually finding an old shed nestled among the trees.
Inside, there was another note pinned to a rickety shelf. It read, Almost there, Chloe. This journey’s about patience. Go to the bridge.
I shook my head, smiling at Grandpa’s persistence.
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Crossing the fields toward the bridge, I found myself navigating muddy patches and thorns snagging at my clothes.
“Hard work’s nothing to fear,” Grandpa had always said. “The best things come to those who put in the effort.”
At last, I reached the bridge. There, I found a small box under a loose plank. My hands trembled as I opened it.
Inside the box was a photograph of Grandpa and me, beaming, holding a bottle of honey we’d harvested years ago.
Next to it was a small note.
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It read:
Dear Chloe,
The greatest gifts in life aren’t things. They’re the lessons we learn, the patience we build, and the love we share. I wanted you to understand that wealth isn’t just money. It’s in hard work, patience, and caring for something. Thank you for following through. Our house, and the bees, they’re a part of you.
With all my love,
Grandpa.
I clutched the note as I finally understood why Grandpa left the apiary for me.
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All this time, he had known exactly what I needed, far beyond any amount of money. Grandpa had set this up to show me a path that would stay with me forever.
When I returned to the house, Aunt Daphne was waiting. I told her everything, and she gave me a gentle smile.
“I knew he’d leave you a treasure hunt,” she said softly, pulling me into a hug. “He wanted you to see the true value of his gift.”
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I promised Aunt Daphne I’d look after the bees from then on.
And now, years later, I’m still here, tending Grandpa’s apiary. The lessons he left me are ingrained in every hive and honeycomb.
My little boy, Ben, often joins me and excitedly peeks into the hives. His favorite part is when we fill the honey jars together.
Grandpa taught me more than I ever imagined, and now I’m passing those lessons down.
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