In the early 1990s, the world fell in love with the adorable Mara Wilson, the child actor known for playing the precocious little girl in family classics like Mrs. Doubtfire and Miracle on 34th Street.
The young star, who turned 37 on July 24, seemed poised for success but as she grew older, she stopped being “cute” and disappeared from the big screen.
“Hollywood was burned out on me,” she says, adding that “if you’re not cute anymore, if you’re not beautiful, then you are worthless.
In 1993, five-year-old Mara Wilson stole the hearts of millions of fans when she starred as Robin Williams’ youngest child in Mrs. Doubtfire.
The California-born star had previously appeared in commercials when she received the invitation to star in one of the biggest-grossing comedies in Hollywood history.
“My parents were proud, but they kept me grounded. If I ever said something like, ‘I’m the greatest!’ my mother would remind me, ‘You’re just an actor. You’re just a kid,’” Wilson, now 37, said.
After her big screen debut, she won the role of Susan Walker – the same role played by Natalie Wood in 1947 – in 1994’s Miracle on 34th Street.
In an essay for the Guardian, Wilson writes of her audition, “I read my lines for the production team and told them I didn’t believe in Santa Claus.” Referencing the Oscar-winning actor who played her mom in Mrs. Doubtfire, she continues, “but I did believe in the tooth fairy and had named mine after Sally Field.”
‘Most unhappy’
Next, Wilson played the magical girl in 1996’s Matilda, starring alongside Danny DeVito and his real-life wife Rhea Perlman.
It was also the same year her mother, Suzie, lost her battle with breast cancer.
“I didn’t really know who I was…There was who I was before that, and who I was after that. She was like this omnipresent thing in my life,” Wilson says of the deep grief she experienced after losing her mother. She adds, “I found it kind of overwhelming. Most of the time, I just wanted to be a normal kid, especially after my mother died.”
The young girl was exhausted and when she was “very famous,” she says she “was the most unhappy.”
When she was 11, she begrudgingly played her last major role in the 2000 fantasy adventure film Thomas and the Magic Railroad. “The characters were too young. At 11, I had a visceral reaction to [the] script…Ugh, I thought. How cute,” she tells the Guardian.
‘Burned out’
But her exit from Hollywood wasn’t only her decision.
As a young teenager, the roles weren’t coming in for Wilson, who was going through puberty and outgrowing the “cute.”
She was “just another weird, nerdy, loud girl with bad teeth and bad hair, whose bra strap was always showing.”
“At 13, no one had called me cute or mentioned the way I looked in years, at least not in a positive way,” she says.
Wilson was forced to deal with the pressures of fame and the challenges of transitioning to adulthood in the public eye. Her changing image had a profound effect on her.
“I had this Hollywood idea that if you’re not cute anymore, if you’re not beautiful, then you are worthless. Because I directly tied that to the demise of my career. Even though I was sort of burned out on it, and Hollywood was burned out on me, it still doesn’t feel good to be rejected.”
Mara as the writer
Wilson, now a writer, authored her first book “Where Am I Now? True Stories of Girlhood and Accidental Fame,” in 2016.
The book discusses “everything from what she learned about sex on the set of Melrose Place, to discovering in adolescence that she was no longer ‘cute’ enough for Hollywood, these essays chart her journey from accidental fame to relative (but happy) obscurity.”
She also wrote “Good Girls Don’t” a memoir that examines her life as a child actor living up to expectations.
“Being cute just made me miserable,” she writes in her essay for the Guardian. “I had always thought it would be me giving up acting, not the other way around.”
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Bride Insists Her Bridesmaids Reimburse Her for Their Ceremony Dresses, but Swift Retribution Ensues
When my best friend Emily asked us to be her bridesmaids, we were excited for a day full of happiness and celebration. However, we didn’t expect the financial burden that would test our friendship and lead to an unforgettable moment.
In the bridal suite, excitement filled the air as Sarah helped me fix a stray piece of hair. The room smelled sweet like roses while Emily, glowing with excitement, moved from one bridesmaid to another, making sure everything was just right. Emily showed off her sparkling diamond-studded shoes, asking for my opinion. I assured her they looked stunning, and her sigh of relief was clear. She just wanted the day to be perfect.
Lisa chimed in, assuring Emily that everything was well planned and would go smoothly. Our spirits were high when Emily unveiled a lovely surprise for us, gorgeous bridesmaid dresses packed neatly in garment bags. As we unzipped them, we revealed beautiful pastels adorned with intricate lace and delicate embroidery.
Megan marveled at the dresses, while Sarah noted how expensive they must have been. Emily laughed, though her nerves showed a bit. She explained that you only get married once, and she wanted everything to be unforgettable.
The dresses fit beautifully, making us feel like we had stepped into a fairy tale. As we admired ourselves in the mirror, we felt elegant and magical. The ceremony was breathtaking, set under a floral archway as Emily walked toward James, radiating joy. Their vows told a heartfelt story, moving many to tears. When the officiant announced: “You may now kiss the bride”, the moment was filled with cheers as the newlyweds shared their first kiss, framed by flowers and the warm sunlight.
At the reception, the hall sparkled with fairy lights and laughter. As the celebration continued, Emily pulled us aside for a heartfelt moment. She thanked us for our support and for looking beautiful. However, her tone changed as she expressed a need for reimbursement for the dresses, $1,200 each.
Her request shocked us, dampening the festive atmosphere. Confusion washed over our group. Sarah voiced our collective disbelief, thinking the dresses were gifts. Emily clarified that she needed us to cover the cost, which made her visibly uncomfortable.
Megan responded, highlighting that such an expense was unexpected and too high for us to manage. Tension filled the room as we struggled with the sudden financial strain and what it meant for our friendship. Just then, a commotion caught our attention. A team of staff members struggled with a giant wedding cake that seemed much too large for the occasion. Emily rushed over, alarmed by the scene.
The delivery team explained there had been a mix-up with the order, a zero had accidentally been added, inflating the cake’s size. Emily’s surprise mirrored our own when we realized the irony of the situation: she had just placed a financial burden on us, and now she faced an equally daunting issue.
I suggested it might be a sign to reconsider the dress situation, hoping to ease the tension. Overwhelmed by her mistake, Emily nodded, acknowledging the truth in my words. She apologized, and we agreed to enjoy the night, planning to sort everything out later.
The evening transformed into a joyful occasion. The enormous cake, initially a source of stress, became a source of laughter and a highlight of the party. As the night went on, we danced and celebrated, the earlier tension fading away under the twinkling lights.
Reflecting on the night, Emily expressed her gratitude for our understanding. She realized the importance of people over material things. It wasn’t about the dresses or the cake; it was about the bonds we share.
We concluded the night with warm hugs and promises of unwavering support, regardless of any misunderstandings. It was a wedding we would always remember, filled with love and valuable lessons about friendship and the unexpected turns life can take. What would you have done in our situation?
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