Matt Heath: My parting message: Enjoy things while they are around

A lot of big, tragic and important things have happened to this wonderful country of ours since April 2014. None of which I have covered. I was too busy writing about hungover parenting, ancient philosophy and my dog Colin.

Out of the 536 columns I have written, 27 were about that guy. Far too few. He is such a good boy, he deserves an article a week.

Today is the end of an era for me, and whenever these final events pop up in our lives, we can’t help but think about the ultimate end.

Everything we do, we will one day do for the last time. That’s why you have to enjoy things while they are around. It’s not just big events like leaving a job, house or loved one either. Whatever moment you happen to be in now, you will never get it back, and you don’t know how many more you have.

Everything we do in life, from eating pizza to spending time with the people we love, to driving, writing, drinking or breathing, we will one day experience for the final time. It might happen tomorrow. This can be either a depressing or an inspiring thought, depending on how you look at it.

A few years back in this column, I interviewed professor of philosophy William B Irvine, of Wright State University, Ohio, on this very topic. He put it this way on a Zoom call: “Recognition of the impermanence of everything in life can invest the things we do with a significance and intensity that would otherwise be absent. The only way we can be truly alive is if we make it our business periodically to entertain thoughts of the end.”

Today’s column is very meaningful to me because it is my last. Like the last night with a lover before she goes overseas. And just like a lover, there have been some half-arsed efforts put in from me over the years. Last week, for example, I spent 750 words moaning about how bad my cricket team is. But the truth is that any of my columns could have been the final. If I had reminded myself every week for the past 10 years that the end is inevitable, I may have been more grateful for having a column and appreciated writing them all as much as I am this one.

While everything we do could have more meaning with a focus on finitude, some things are inherently more worthwhile than others. There is no doubt my column “The pros and cons of wearing Speedos” from November 2022 was less meaningful than most things in this world. That was a waste of everyone’s time. So, if we only have so much time, how do we pick the best things to do?

Well, Oliver Burkeman, the author of Four Thousand Weeks – Time Management For Mortals, suggested this to me in a 2022 column: “Ask yourself, does this choice enlarge me? You usually know on some unspoken level if it does. That’s a good way to distinguish between options.”

With that in mind, I don’t feel great about my 2018 article on “New Zealand’s best hole”. That didn’t enlarge anyone.

There will be people reading this column right now who have loved my writing in the Herald and are sad to see it end. Others will have hated it and are glad to see me go. Many won’t have any opinion at all. But for those in the first camp, I have good news. I have a book coming out on May 28 called A Life Less Punishing – 13 Ways To Love The Life You Got (Allen and Unwin Book Publishers). It’s a deep dive into the history, philosophy and science of not wasting our time lost in anger, loneliness, humiliation, stress, fear, boredom and all the other ways we find to not enjoy perfectly good lives. It’s available for pre-order right now (google it if you’re interested).

A Life Less Punishing took me two years to write and is equivalent in words to 100 of these columns. Which would be a complete nightmare for those in the hate camp, but as I say, great news for those who want more.

Anyway, thanks to the Herald for having me, thanks to the lovely people who make an effort to say nice things to me about my column nearly every day and thanks to the universe for every single second we get.

Bless!

Celine Dion Reveals Her Problem

In addition to giving her fans a major health update, Celine Dion announced that she would be delaying some of her tour dates until 2024.

A Message from Celine to You

“I’ve been dealing with health issues for quite some time, and it has been an immense challenge for me to confront these obstacles and discuss the journey I’ve been on,” Celine wrote in a poignant post on Instagram. She stated quite frankly that she will not be prepared to continue her European tour in February as originally scheduled.

A More Detailed Exam of Celine’s Health

Celine went on to describe her health in more detail, revealing that stiff person syndrome is a neurological ailment for which she has been diagnosed. Her illness is resulting in severe and incapacitating muscular spasms. It seems sense that Celine is giving her recuperation and wellbeing top priority by taking the required time.

Postponed Tour Dates

Fans may be disappointed by the announcement of the rearranged tour dates, but it’s evident that Celine’s health continues to come first. She is determined to make sure she fully recovers before going back on stage, as seen by her choice to postpone the European tour until 2024.

An Endearing Expression of Thanks

Celine thanked her fans for their steadfast support despite the difficulties she is now enduring. “I’m incredibly thankful for your love and understanding as I navigate through this difficult time,” she said in acknowledgment. This message demonstrates the close bond she has with her fan base.

Gazing Forward

Fans of Celine are supporting her with love and encouragement while she takes the time necessary to attend to her health issues. Fans are excitedly awaiting Celine’s victorious return to the stage since it is clear that her tenacity and willpower are just as amazing as her musical ability.

Assistance and Motivation

Fans and fellow artists have shown their support for Celine following her health update. The music business and her fans are aware of how important it is to put one’s health and wellbeing first.

Adaptability in the Face of Difficulties

Celine Dion’s experience with health issues serves as a reminder of her tenacity, which is what makes her unique. Even for a megastar of her caliber, her choice to postpone tour dates is a heartbreaking reminder of how important it is to take care of oneself.

Continue to Communicate

Fans may follow Celine on official platforms and social media as she sets out on her recuperation trip. Her perseverance and courage will surely inspire a great number of people who could also be dealing with health issues.

Wishing You Healing

Let’s band together to send Celine Dion our best wishes for recovery as she navigates the challenges presented by stiff person syndrome. Her experience serves as a reminder to all of us of the value of perseverance and self-care, and her bravery and candor continue to touch hearts around the globe.

A Consistent Signal of Assistance

To spread the love and support for Celine Dion, forward this update to your other friends and supporters. She continues to be a source of inspiration and strength for all of us as she makes these vital moves toward her recovery.

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