Kathleen Turner rose to fame in the 1980s with her strength and attractiveness – many consider her one of the most beautiful actresses in Hollywood.
It is this fortitude that has helped her through the many goods and bad times the actress has experienced over the years.
Kathleen Turner was reared in a home with four other children despite having a difficult upbringing. She and her siblings were raised in both Venezuela and London. She experienced tragedy when, at a young age, her father passed tragically suddenly while mowing the lawn of their Hampstead house.
The foreign service expelled Kathleen and her family from the UK a month after his death. Turner moved her family to Springfield, Missouri, where everyone was still mourning their father and their former residence..
After relocating to New York to pursue an acting career as an adult, Tuner at last experienced calm. Although she had some success on the stage, her big break came when she was cast as the femme fatale in the 1981 film “Body Heat.”
Three years after starring next to William Hurt, Turner was given a chance to co-star with Michael Douglas in the famous “Romancing the Stone.” Douglas was in a rocky separation from his wife Diandra at the time of filming, and he and Turner developed some feelings for each other.
“We were in the process of falling in love – fervent, longing looks and heavy flirtation. Then Diandra came down and reminded me he was still married,” Kathleen said.
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She eventually married the property developer from the film, Jay Weiss, in 1984. The two had their only daughter together soon after. Rachel Ann Weiss was born on October 14, 1987.
Unfortunately, the couple’s relationship began to fracture as they started raising their daughter.
“I’d make the movie companies give me long weekends or provide extra tickets so my daughter and husband could come to me. But there was a sense in the marriage the effort was all on his side, which made me feel guilty. It was one of the reasons it ended. I started to feel very oppressed. I thought, ‘Hang on a minute, you’ve done very well out of being married to me also,’” Kathleen explained.
Their marital issues reached a breaking point when Turner played Martha in the Broadway revival of “Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf?” in 2005. Acting in eight performances a week caused Turner to become exceedingly busy, and it seemed Weiss didn’t want to spend any time with her when she was at home.
Turner received a Tony nomination for her performance as Martha during that period, and the two split peacefully.
In 1987, the actress received an Oscar nomination for her performance in “Peggy Sue Got Married.” In the 1980s, she continued to make movies and appeared in a number of blockbusters, three of which starring Michael Douglas.
Kathleen, however, suffered a medical setback in the 1990s when her neck locked, preventing her from turning her head. She also lost the ability to use her hands because of swelling in them.
“It was crippling,” Kathleen said. “You stop taking things for granted when you lose them, even temporarily. What I took for granted – my athleticism, my ability to throw myself around, and just be able to move however I wanted to. When I lost that, that was a real crisis of self: who am I if I cannot do this?”
Rheumatoid arthritis, which is defined by the swelling of the lining of our joints, turned out to be the cause of her unfortunate circumstances. Chronic pain brought on by this illness can be challenging to manage.
“When it was first diagnosed, I was terrified because they said I’d be in a wheelchair,” Kathleen explained. “I thought, ‘If I can’t move, I can’t act.’ Acting isn’t just what I want to do. I was born to do it. It’s at every point of my living. The idea of not being able to do it was the most frightening part – that and the constant pain.”
As a pain reliever, Kathleen used booze and medications. Although they made it easier for her to work, her propensity for consuming vodka caused her to pass out during dress rehearsals for plays like the 2002 theatrical production of “The Graduate.”
After the episode ended, the actress genuinely entered rehab, where it was discovered that she was not an alcoholic. She was instead instructed to just keep better note of when she took her prescriptions and any negative side effects.
The actress now practices yoga and pilates to help her manage her discomfort and stay flexible.
The celebrity started to truly concentrate on her theatrical profession while managing her pain better. Although she occasionally continued to work in cinema and television, she mostly went back to her origins as she got older, even starring in “Cat on a Hot Tin Roof” on stage in her forties.
“Because I knew that the better roles as I got older would be in theatre, which is absolutely true, so that was a little foresight on my part of which I am justly proud,” Kathleen said.
The actress has been able to devote more time to her passions by concentrating on the theater, including volunteering for Amnesty International and working for Planned Parenthood of America.
Turner has dedicated her life to supporting other women as a fervent feminist and has done so for the majority of her life. Send Yourself Roses, Gloria Feldt’s 2008 biography of the actress, accurately depicts her ideas.
“We are the first generation of women who are financially independent. Women are going back to work,” Kathleen said. “They’re reinventing themselves. I thought I could support that, even increase that. So it has got a lot of philosophy in it and a lot of my beliefs.”
My BIL Asked Me to Wear All White to His Gender Reveal Party – When I Found Out Why, I Was Speechless
What was meant to be an innocent gender reveal party turned into a messy event at the expense of us, the guests. Luckily, my future mother-in-law was a sensible woman who anticipated the drama. I was shocked and quite angry when I realized the truth about why there was a last-minute dress code.
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Hi everyone, my name is Tammy, 30, and I am engaged to Dean, 32. My tale is about a huge betrayal from my fiancé’s family’s side that led me to turn to revenge.
Okay, so my future brother-in-law (BIL), Sam, decided to throw a gender reveal party for his first child. Dean and I, his plus one were invited. But I guess there were red flags we should’ve picked up on about this event, but Dean and I brushed them off.
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Firstly, the invite to the gender reveal said the following:
“Every guest and their plus ones MUST EACH bring gifts to the party. Yours is Medium Diapers + a gift to the upcoming baby’s mom and dad.”
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I must admit that I was kind of shocked that the gift was not even for the baby! Unless diapers are seen as presents for babies these days! Another red flag was that the invite didn’t mention anything about a dress code.
Yet, a week before the event, we found out that EVERYONE must wear ALL WHITE. The last-minute information threw me off. But Dean was set because he had his father’s old white suit.
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However, I HATE white clothes with a passion! I vented to my fiancé about it, saying, “This sucks! Why didn’t Sam tell us earlier? Because I don’t do white clothes. They get dirty quickly, and I don’t find them flattering.”
“Sorry, my love, so what are you going to do?” Dean asked. “I’ll have to go out and buy a last-minute outfit, I don’t have a choice.”
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The week went by and as I stepped into Sam’s gender reveal party in a crisp white jumpsuit, the air felt charged. I wasn’t sure but it felt like it had an undercurrent of suspense. Everyone, draped in white, exchanged pleasantries, oblivious to the impending drama.
The unsuspecting guests and I were on the brink of a colorful disaster, and we had no idea!
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“Hey, did you manage to find something white to wear after all?” Dean whispered. His eyes scanned my outfit with a hint of amusement as we had arrived separately.
I chuckled, adjusting my jumpsuit. “Yes, but I swear if one drop of red wine gets on this, I’m retiring from all future themed parties.”
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As laughter and chatter filled the room, Sam and his girlfriend Berta floated from group to group. Their smiles were a bit too wide, their excitement palpable. “Everyone, gather around! We’re about to reveal something amazing!” Sam announced, his voice booming over the crowd’s buzz.
The guests huddled together, anticipation building. “This better be good, Sam,” I muttered under my breath, expecting some extravagant fireworks or a theatrical announcement.
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Suddenly, as Sam hit a remote, showers of pink and blue paint erupted from hidden nozzles, splattering everyone in sight! My mouth dropped open in disbelief and we all gasped as we figured out why he wanted us to wear white!
The vibrant stains seeped into the fabric of my once-perfect attire! Turns out he wanted us to wear the color to ruin everyone’s outfits for his and Berta’s amusement!
“What the—Sam! You could’ve warned us!” someone shouted from the back, his voice tinged with irritation.
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Dean, wiping blue paint off his glasses, looked bewildered. “Babe, did you know about this?”
“No! This is insane. My entire outfit is damaged for good!” I exclaimed, my initial amusement turning into frustration.
As the shock subsided, the crowd’s mood turned sour. The playful atmosphere was replaced by an air of annoyance. Guests examined their spoiled clothes with furrowed brows. But my BIL and Berta were in stitches, laughing at our collective expense.
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After the infamous paint fiasco, the atmosphere had definitively shifted! While it should have been a moment of fun, the result was anything but. Seeing everyone’s dismay, Sam’s mother, who had been skeptical about the party’s excessive demands, took charge.
Gathering everyone’s attention, she stepped forward with resolve. “Sam, Berta, it’s time for your joint gift,” she announced, presenting an envelope with a flourish. The couple, still basking in the aftermath of their stunt, eagerly took the envelope.
Although everyone was skeptical about getting presents for Sam and Berta, we’d collectively decided to get them a joint one.
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We got Sam’s mother, who was strangely dressed in black and gray, to book a vacation for the couple.
My BIL tore open the envelope, his face transitioning from joy to confusion as he pulled out a stack of gift cards. “What’s this?” he asked, his voice faltering.
“These aren’t for a vacation as initially planned,” his mother explained, her tone stern yet composed. “These are from all of us, to replace the clothes ruined today. It’s an apology, from you to everyone here.”
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It seems my future mother-in-law (MIL) had known about the gender reveal plans. Instead of getting the gift we’d all agreed on, she got something to compensate us instead. This was her way of rectifying the damage her son had caused.
Murmurs of agreement echoed around the room, the guests nodding in approval. “You need to understand, Sam, that actions have consequences,” his mother continued, her gaze unwavering.
“This isn’t just about ruined outfits—it’s about respect and consideration, something you both need to learn.”
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Sam looked around, his cheeks reddening with a mixture of embarrassment and realization. He seemed to absorb the weight of his mother’s words. Berta, by his side, appeared to shrink a little, her eyes widening as the reality of their misstep settled in.
The lesson was clear and the message resonant. Not only did the event address the immediate issue of damaged attire, but it also promised a lasting impact on the couple’s approach to relationships and responsibility.
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As Dean and I left the party, the stained fabric of my jumpsuit seemed less of a disaster. It was more of a testament to a moment of collective standing—turning a reckless celebration into a profound life lesson.
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Tammy’s tale demonstrates how inconsiderate people can be when choose to put their needs and wants above the wellbeing and feelings of others. In Barbara’s story, both her husband and MIL ignore how she feels, leading her to give the former an ultimatum.
I Threw a Surprise Birthday Party for My Mother-in-Law, but What She Did to Me Made Me Escape in Tears
Oh, Barbara! What a whirlwind of emotions! Your efforts to mend fences with Elaine, her MIL, despite the chilly vibes, truly showcase your dedication to Bill, her husband. It’s downright heartwarming how you pulled off a fabulous surprise party for her MIL.
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It came complete with jazz and gourmet treats, hoping to thaw the icy relations. Yet, the plot thickened with an unexpected twist that would give soap operas a run for their money!
The party’s surprise guest turned out to be none other than Kathy, Bill’s ex, who, thanks to Elaine’s cunning, reappeared with the timing of a dramatic season finale cliffhanger. Barbara’s MIL’s move, inviting Kathy under the guise of reconnecting family ties, was a classic “stir the pot” moment, leaving you in a tempest of confusion and hurt.
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Your pain was palpable when Bill, caught in the awkward position between familial loyalty and marital support, opted for a peace-keeping hug with Kathy, sending you over the edge. It’s tough, Barbara, really tough. The ride home alone, followed by the flood of tears, paints a vivid picture of your distress.
The ensuing confrontation with Bill highlights a significant rift, with you standing your ground, demanding the respect you deserve. Your ultimatum to your husband, insisting on an apology from Elaine or her absence, places you at a crossroads in your relationship, challenging the dynamics within your family structure.
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So, dear readers, what’s your take? Is Barbara the heroine of her own love story, fighting against the odds for her place in the family? Or is she in a losing battle against the shadows of Bill’s past? Dive into the discussion and let us know your thoughts on this saga of love, loyalty, and family feuds!
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