Ali MacGraw became a Hollywood superstar overnight. But just as quickly as she rose to fame, she disappeared from show business altogether.
Today, the 84-year-old actress has settled down in a remote and tiny town, and she’s aging gracefully with her grey hair.
Ali MacGraw
Ali MacGraw – born Elizabeth Alice MacGraw – was born on April 1, 1939, in Pound Ridge, New York, USA. Her mother, Frances, was an artist and worked at a school in Paris, later settling in Greenwich Village. She married Richard MacGraw, who was also an artist. In 1939, Ali was born.
Ali’s father Richard supposedly had issues from his own childhood which made him a little bit different from others.
He had survived a terrible childhood in an orphanage, running away at the age of 16 to go to sea. He would later study at an art school in Munich, Germany.
“Daddy was frightened and really, really angry. He never forgave his real parents for giving him up,” Ali explained, saying said her father’s adult life was spent “suppressing the rage that covered all his hurt.”
Ali MacGraw – childhood
Money was short for their family, too. Frances and Richard, together with Ali and her brother, Richard Jr, had to move into a house on a Pound Ridge wilderness preserve which they shared with an elderly couple.
“There were no doors; we shared the kitchen and bathroom with them,” Ali said. “It was utter lack of privacy. It was horrible.”
Mom Francis worked with several commercial-art assignments and supported the family. At the same time, Richard had a hard time selling his paintings, and as a result became very frustrated. Ali’s brother Richard became a victim for his anger at home.
“On good days he was great, but on bad days he was horrendous,” she recalled. “Daddy would beat my brother up, badly. I was witness to it, and it was terrible.”
Ali was the daughter of artists, and she knew that she, too, wanted to go into a creative line of work as she got older. She earned a scholarship at the prep school Rosemary Hall, and in 1956, she moved to study at Wellesley College in Massachusetts.
By the age of 22, Ali MacGraw moved to New York and got her first job as an assistant editor at Harper’s Bazaar, working with photographers as an assistant.
Fashion work in New York
Fashion editor Diana Vreeland hired Ali as, what she recalls as, a “flunkie”. Ever seen the film The Devil Wears Prada? Well, it was pretty much that.
“It was ‘Girl! Get me a pencil!’,” MacGraw recalled.
The future Hollywood celebrity worked her job as an assistant for several months. Then, about six months in, fashion photographer Melvin Sokolsky noticed her beautiful looks, and Ali MacGraw was hired as a stylist,and given a better salary. She’d end up staying in that position for six years.
“I don’t know where she got this work ethic, but Ali would come in at eight a.m., and many times I’d come back at one in the morning and she would still be doing things for the next day,” Ruth Ansel, a former art director of Vanity Fair and Harper’s Bazaar recalls.
Ali was great as a stylist. But soon, she was asked to work in front of the cameras as a model. It didn’t take long before she was on magazine covers all over the world, even appearing in television commercials. For thing led to another, and Ali tumbled headfirst into the profession of acting.
She had been sketched nude by Salvador Dali a couple of years earlier. But when the surrealist artist started sucking her toes, MacGraw decided that she’d rather be an actress than a model.
Ali MacGraw – films
Ali went straight from an unknown stylist and into the world of cinema, and boy, did she do it with a bang.
She was untutored in the art of film, which gave her acting another dimension. Her natural beauty was stunning, and the audience loved her.
Following a small role in A Lovely Way to Die (1968), she was asked to star in the 1969 film Goodbye, Columbus. It turned out to be a great call, with MacGraw receiving a Golden Globe for Most Promising Newcomer – Female. The following year, she got her big international breakthrough with a role that would pretty much sum up her career.
Ali MacGraw had received a script from her agent. She’d read it and wept twice because of how much she loved it. She decided she really wanted a part in it, and got herself a meeting with the film’s producer Robert Evans – who at the time was Paramount Picture’s head of production – at the Beverly Hills Hotel’s Polo Lounge. Not only did Evans think she was perfect for the part in the movie Love Story, he absolutely fell in love with her.
MacGraw – playing the role of Jenny – acted alongside Ryan O’Neal in the movie Love Story. The American romantic drama film, in which Ali played a working-class college student, became a smash hit.
Love Story hit the cinemas in 1970, and wow did the audience cherish it. It became the No. 1 film in the United States, and at the time, it was the sixth highest grossing movie in history in the US and Canada.
Award-winning actress
MacGraw earned an Academy Award nomination for her role, and the film itself earned her another win and five Academy Award Nominations. She also won herself a second Golden Globe as Best Actress in a Motion Picture – Drama.
Film producer Robert Evans not only loved her on screen, he had fallen in love with her in real life, and that love was reciprocated. In 1969, the couple tied the knot, and two years later, they welcomed their son, Josh Evans.
Ali MacGraw was the hot new star of the 1970s, but her private life and marriage with Evans would soon come to an end. Steve McQueen had visited their home to ask her to star alongside him in The Getaway, and the two Hollywood stars clicked right away.
“I looked in those blue eyes, and my knees started knocking,” MacGraw recalled. “I became obsessed.”
MacGraw and McQueen had an affair, and she soon left Evans to live with the actor in Malibu, along with her son Josh.
“Steve was this very original, principled guy who didn’t seem to be part of the system, and I loved that,” she said.
Ali MacGraw – Steve McQueen
But after a while, Ali realized that Steve McQueen had his own problems. Following his father abandoning his mother, a then-14-year-old Steve was sent to a school for delinquent children. MacGraw said he never trusted women after that.
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He didn’t like that she worked and had her own career. For a while, Ali stayed home to raise their sons. But her husband’s demands were something Ali simply couldn’t accept in the long run.
Not only that, but he’d explode if she even looked at another man. He also wanted her to sign a prenuptial agreement, promising not to ask for anything if they’d divorce. She abided by the agreement when they did divorce in 1978.
“I couldn’t even go to art class because Steve expected his ‘old lady’ to be there every night with dinner on the table,” she recalled.
“Steve’s idea of hot was not me. He liked blond bimbos, and they were always around.”
This was the start of a pretty dark time in MacGraw’s life. She arrived on set to shoot the 1978 film Convoy both drunk and high, which prompted her to quit drugs.
Son Who Hadn’t Seen His Mother in Years Returns to Find Her Home in Ruins
Adam had not visited his mother for years, becoming distant after he started his own life. One day, he needed to pick up some documents from her house, only to find it in ruins and abandoned.
Diana Evans raised Adam alone, working tirelessly to provide for him and pay for his education. After he graduated from high school, he chose to attend a university far away in New York. Though it made her sad, Diana supported Adam’s decision to study and live in New York while she remained in California. In the beginning, they stayed in touch, and he called her whenever he had the chance.
Unfortunately, Diana never managed to visit Adam during his college years. Their communication mainly happened through phone calls, which gradually decreased over time, but she valued their conversations.
As graduation approached, Adam called his mother to invite her. Diana felt immense pride and excitement. She wanted nothing more than to see her son walk across the stage to receive his diploma.
After the call, Diana searched for flights to New York. To her surprise, the tickets were quite expensive, and she realized she didn’t have enough money for a round-trip ticket and a special gift for Adam’s graduation. Determined to make it work, she took on extra babysitting jobs to save up. After working long hours, she finally had enough money to buy her ticket and a gift.
While shopping, she decided on a nice watch, thinking every professional should have one. After making her purchase, she excitedly asked the sales clerk to wrap it beautifully, explaining that it was a gift for her son who was graduating from a top university.
A few days later, Diana flew to New York. Adam picked her up from the airport, and together they went to his campus for the graduation ceremony. Diana couldn’t contain her excitement as she snapped pictures. When Adam received his diploma, she cheered loudly, bursting with pride.
After the ceremony, they embraced warmly, sharing heartfelt congratulations. They went out to a nice restaurant for dinner, and even though Diana worried about the bill, Adam insisted on treating her, expressing his gratitude for all she had done for him.
Overcome with emotion, Diana felt grateful for the kind man Adam had become. She handed him the gift she had brought, and he was delighted to find the watch inside. He promised to wear it every day as a reminder of her support. That night, they enjoyed their time together, taking photos and exploring the sights of New York.
A few days later, Diana had to return to California. She felt lonely thinking about being back home without him. Adam assured her that he would try to visit, promising to keep in touch. Sadly, those calls became less frequent until they eventually stopped altogether. Diana began to feel lonely and depressed, struggling with her health and appetite. Despite her attempts to reach out, Adam was busy with work and his relationship, making only occasional calls to check in.
Eventually, Adam decided to establish his own firm in New York and needed some documents from California. Instead of asking his mother to send them, he flew back home unexpectedly. However, upon arriving, he was shocked by the state of the house.
The once vibrant home was now in disrepair, with cobwebs and broken fences. Inside, it was empty except for some ruined furniture. Adam tried calling his mother but received no answer, so he went to a neighbor for information.
The neighbor revealed that a recent storm had caused significant damage to their home. Diana hadn’t had the funds to repair it and had moved into a nursing home to avoid burdening Adam. Shocked and filled with guilt, Adam rushed to the nursing home. When he saw his mother, frail and in a wheelchair, he felt overwhelmed with regret for not being there for her when she needed him most.
Diana, relieved and touched to see her son, encouraged him to rise from the ground, but he remained there, expressing his sorrow for neglecting her. Adam promised never to let her be alone again, vowing to take care of her. This time, he kept his promise. He repaired their home and brought her back from the nursing home.
He chose to start his business in California instead of New York and invited his girlfriend to live with them. Together, they created a loving home where Diana felt cherished and happy once more. She helped around the house, cooking meals and keeping everything in order while Adam and his girlfriend worked.
The family found joy in their time together, reminding us that no matter how busy life gets, we should always prioritize our loved ones. A mother’s love is unwavering, and Diana’s hope for a reunion with Adam never faded, proving that love endures even in times of separation.
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