During a guest appearance on HBO’s Who’s Talking to Chris Wallace, the 80-year-old Copacabana singer said he didn’t think it was important to announce his sexuality during the earlier decades of his career.
Manilow came out in 2017, almost three years after he married his husband and manager Garry Kief in a private ceremony. The couple have been together for 45 years now, though they’ve kept much of their relationship away from the public eye.
When he came out to People magazine in 2017, Manilow — whose real name is Barry Pincus — worried he’d be “disappointing” some of his fans by revealing his sexuality. Instead, Manilow, who was 73 at the time, said the reaction from his fanbase was “beautiful.”
Despite his current feelings of nonchalance about his own coming out, Manilow said announcing his sexuality as his career was booming would have been a bad idea.
“Now being gay is no big deal,” he explained. “Back in the ’70s it would have killed a career.”
Regardless, the usually very private Manilow said he thinks “everybody knew that Garry and I were a couple all those years.”
“Really, Garry and I’ve been together for so long,” he said. “It just never dawned on me that we’re going to come out. But when we got married, it was a big deal, so we did.”
Manilow credited Kief for saving his life. He said he is thankful he had Kief to support him as his music career was taking off, despite keeping their relationship under wraps.
“As my career exploded, it was just crazy. And, you know, going back to an empty hotel room, you can get into a lot of trouble if you’re alone night after night after night,” Manilow explained. “But I met Garry right around when it was exploding. And I didn’t have to go back to those empty hotel rooms. I had somebody to cry with or to celebrate with.”
Manilow said he did not wish an isolated hotel room for any young people.
“It was pretty lonely until I met Garry. And then it was fun,” he smiled.
Kief is not Manilow’s first spouse. In 1964, Manilow married his high school sweetheart, Susan Deixler. They were married for one year.
Manilow told CNN’s Wallace he “really did love” Deixler, but added “the gay thing was pretty, pretty strong. I couldn’t deny it.”
The singer said he knew he was gay before marrying Deixler, but their marriage ended because Manilow couldn’t be the committed husband his then-wife needed. He revealed that his sexuality was not the reason his marriage failed.
“We had a very nice marriage, it was great, but I was away every night making music, as a young musician would be,” Manilow described. “It wasn’t good for me, and it wasn’t good for her.”
“I couldn’t be the proper husband,” he continued. “I was out making music every night, sowing my wild oats. I wasn’t ready to settle down.”
Brooklyn-born Manilow skyrocketed to international fame in 1974 after his release of the ever-popular pop-rock ballad Mandy. He became one of the biggest-selling musicians of all time. Prior to his success as a singer-songwriter, Manilow was behind a number of famous commercial jingles for brands like State Farm and Band-Aid — a gig that he has said helped him create catchy hooks for his own hit songs.
Why You Should Sleep With Garlic Under Your Pillow
Garlic has been used for centuries, not just in cooking, but also for its powerful medicinal properties. One surprising yet ancient practice is placing garlic under your pillow while you sleep. While it might sound unusual, there are several reasons why this tradition has stuck around, offering benefits for both sleep quality and overall health.
1. Promotes Relaxation and Better Sleep
Garlic contains sulfur compounds that emit a calming aroma when placed under your pillow. This natural scent helps to relax the mind and body, making it easier to fall asleep and stay asleep. If you struggle with insomnia or restless nights, this simple remedy can promote deeper and more restful sleep.
2. Boosts Immunity
Garlic is known for its immune-boosting properties, thanks to its high concentration of allicin, an active compound that fights off bacteria and viruses. While placing garlic under your pillow won’t directly enter your system like eating it, the scent may help create a protective barrier against airborne illnesses during cold and flu season.
3. Clears Nasal Passages
If you’re prone to congestion or sinus problems, garlic can help. The strong scent of garlic may act as a natural decongestant, helping to clear nasal passages and make breathing easier. This can be particularly helpful if you suffer from allergies or seasonal colds that affect your sleep.
4. Repels Insects
Garlic’s strong odor is not only unpleasant for bugs but also acts as a natural repellent for mosquitoes and other insects. Placing garlic under your pillow may keep unwanted pests away while you sleep, creating a more peaceful and uninterrupted rest.
5. Provides Spiritual Benefits
In various cultures and traditions, garlic has been used to ward off negative energy, evil spirits, and bad dreams. While these beliefs may be more symbolic than scientific, many people still practice sleeping with garlic as a way to create a sense of protection and safety during the night.
How to Use Garlic Under Your Pillow
- Peel a clove of garlic and place it under your pillow before going to bed. You can also crush the garlic slightly to release more of its aroma.
- For an added boost, place the garlic in a small sachet or cloth to keep your pillow clean while still allowing the scent to flow.
- Replace the garlic every few days to maintain its potency.
Final Thoughts
Sleeping with garlic under your pillow is a natural remedy that can help promote relaxation, improve sleep quality, boost immunity, and keep insects at bay. Whether you’re looking to improve your health or try an ancient practice for better rest, this simple trick is worth a try!
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