During a guest appearance on HBO’s Who’s Talking to Chris Wallace, the 80-year-old Copacabana singer said he didn’t think it was important to announce his sexuality during the earlier decades of his career.
Manilow came out in 2017, almost three years after he married his husband and manager Garry Kief in a private ceremony. The couple have been together for 45 years now, though they’ve kept much of their relationship away from the public eye.
When he came out to People magazine in 2017, Manilow — whose real name is Barry Pincus — worried he’d be “disappointing” some of his fans by revealing his sexuality. Instead, Manilow, who was 73 at the time, said the reaction from his fanbase was “beautiful.”
Despite his current feelings of nonchalance about his own coming out, Manilow said announcing his sexuality as his career was booming would have been a bad idea.
“Now being gay is no big deal,” he explained. “Back in the ’70s it would have killed a career.”
Regardless, the usually very private Manilow said he thinks “everybody knew that Garry and I were a couple all those years.”
“Really, Garry and I’ve been together for so long,” he said. “It just never dawned on me that we’re going to come out. But when we got married, it was a big deal, so we did.”
Manilow credited Kief for saving his life. He said he is thankful he had Kief to support him as his music career was taking off, despite keeping their relationship under wraps.
“As my career exploded, it was just crazy. And, you know, going back to an empty hotel room, you can get into a lot of trouble if you’re alone night after night after night,” Manilow explained. “But I met Garry right around when it was exploding. And I didn’t have to go back to those empty hotel rooms. I had somebody to cry with or to celebrate with.”
Manilow said he did not wish an isolated hotel room for any young people.
“It was pretty lonely until I met Garry. And then it was fun,” he smiled.
Kief is not Manilow’s first spouse. In 1964, Manilow married his high school sweetheart, Susan Deixler. They were married for one year.
Manilow told CNN’s Wallace he “really did love” Deixler, but added “the gay thing was pretty, pretty strong. I couldn’t deny it.”
The singer said he knew he was gay before marrying Deixler, but their marriage ended because Manilow couldn’t be the committed husband his then-wife needed. He revealed that his sexuality was not the reason his marriage failed.
“We had a very nice marriage, it was great, but I was away every night making music, as a young musician would be,” Manilow described. “It wasn’t good for me, and it wasn’t good for her.”
“I couldn’t be the proper husband,” he continued. “I was out making music every night, sowing my wild oats. I wasn’t ready to settle down.”
Brooklyn-born Manilow skyrocketed to international fame in 1974 after his release of the ever-popular pop-rock ballad Mandy. He became one of the biggest-selling musicians of all time. Prior to his success as a singer-songwriter, Manilow was behind a number of famous commercial jingles for brands like State Farm and Band-Aid — a gig that he has said helped him create catchy hooks for his own hit songs.
Years after the death of his wife, John Travolta has heartbreaking plan to find new love
Right after Kelly Preston died in 2020, John Travolta refused to betray the memory of his beloved spouse by falling in love with someone new.
But now, buddies say that the Pulp Fiction star, who’s rocking everyday living as a single father of two, may finally be completely ready to include to the internet pages of his love tale with an additional female.
Maintain reading to study a lot more about Travolta’s adore daily life!
Hollywood legend John Travolta, 69, has been solitary given that his spouse, Kelly Preston, 57, died of cancer in 2020.
The two, who shared three children, have been remarkably candid about their enjoy, and since her reduction, the shadow of her absence has been profound on Travolta, who proceeds to voice his enduring grief on social media.
Only 11 a long time just before Preston died, The Hairspray star was drowning in heartache when Jett, the firstborn child he shared with Preston, died at only 16 in 2009.
Introducing to the immeasurable agony of losing a son and his adored wife, he then lost shut pals and co-stars Olivia Newton-John in August 2022, and Kirstie Alley in December 2022.
Right after all that, it is not surprising he wished to guard his coronary heart.
Vow of celibacy
Right after he shed his wife, resources shut to the star of Grease declare that he to begin with swore off dating, indicating that a foreseeable future connection would “be a betrayal of Preston’s memory.”
“John however considers himself married and claims he will continue to be loyal to Kelly till the working day he dies. It is palms off when it arrives to dating. It is sad, but he’s fundamentally taken a vow of celibacy for the rest of his life.” The close friend proceeds, “He talks about Kelly continuously. Their life ended up so intertwined, it’s pretty really hard for him to go on.”
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