
I take it that everyone of us must navigate our own lives and take responsibility for our decisions? However, it is in our nature as humans to want to help friends who are actually in need. However, what would you do if your friend—the one you always stand by—started confiding in you about all of their issues, repeatedly, and with no sign of stopping? This Reddit member is exactly in that predicament. She wondered if she was managing the matter with her buddy correctly, so she looked to the large internet community for advice.

I(32F) am a single mother of two kids (6M and 5m F). I am a single mother by choice (my kids are donor conceived).
I am lucky enough to have a good job (French teacher in a private school), and a paid off house (parents’ life insurance and inheritance).
Before I had either of my kids, I made sure to have a year’s living expenses saved, then I would take a sabbatical to recover from birth, as well as bond with my kids. While on sabbatical, I still tutor some kids for some extra income.
My friend (34F), just had a baby 2 months ago. She is the breadwinner in her household, and her husband has been unemployed since he was laid off during COVID.
It was great to be pregnant at the same time, as well as having a friend with a newborn. But it has turned sour.
She has been saying how jealous she is of me being able to take off a whole year from work, how she would have loved to not worry about losing their home, how she doesn’t even have a couple hundred dollars in her savings account, let alone a whole year’s worth of living expenses….
I usually ignore it, or brush it off, because I kind of can understand the stress she is under.
Well, starting about 10 days ago, she started hinting at not being able to afford daycare, and any mention of her husband taking care of their kid is brushed off. Then she started remarking on how much free time I must have, which I deflected by saying -truthfully- that being a single mom to a baby and a small kid left me no free time actually.
Then last night she came out with it, and asked if I could “do her a favor” and watch her kid while she’s at work. I was firm, but polite, when I said that I couldn’t, that I am not capable of watching two kids under 6 months.
She started almost begging me, saying she can’t afford daycare, and if she is not back at work, she will lose her job, and they will end up homeless. I again brought up her husband, and she said that he was not good with kids, and isn’t capable of taking care of her kid.
I kept saying no, she kept pushing, until it escalated to her calling me heartless, and me telling her that it’s not my problem she chose to have a kid with a useless man.
Now she blocked me, I am feeling very guilty about what I said, and feeling like an AH.
Tragic News Regarding Frank Fritz of the American Pickers

There are many surprises in life, some happy and others sad. Many people know Frank Fritz as their favorite television personality. He has seen highs and lows in his career. His tale is, in fact, heartwarming.

Frank and Diann Bankson were longtime partners. Regrettably, their breakup had a very negative impact on him, resulting in problems with alcohol, unemployment, and health issues.
Frank and Diann dated intermittently for years, starting when they were 25 years old. After becoming engaged in 2017, they planned a lovely life together and purchased a charming farmhouse in Iowa. However, in the latter part of 2018, things became worse.

Their romance was destroyed when Diann caught Frank with another woman. Frank eventually opened up about how much the betrayal upset him and how it motivated him to get a tattoo as a painful memento.
Frank said, “I bought a house, an expensive ring, and I was going to marry her.” Finding out about her adultery was too much to take. Frank turned to drink as a coping mechanism for the pain and lost a lot of weight at this time.
Frank made the decision to stop dating and concentrate on beating his drinking issue after they broke up.
Frank too had turmoil in his career. His time on the History Channel series “American Pickers” ended in March 2020, allegedly because of health issues following back surgery.

Frank expressed his enthusiasm to rejoin the show once he healed and wanted to return after recovering. But there were no firm arrangements for his return, and it appeared that the performance was going forward without him.
Diann continued living her life, posting pleasant moments on social media with her new lover, Eric Longlett, while Frank struggled with these setbacks.
Frank was admitted to the hospital after suffering a stroke on July 4, 2022. Upon discovering him on the ground, his companion promptly dialed for assistance.

Although Frank’s son was improving, his recuperation was taking a while. Frank was released from the hospital, put under guardianship, and admitted to a care home.
In order to oversee his financial and personal matters and guarantee he received the attention and assistance he required, a close friend was named as his temporary conservator and guardian.
Medical reports state that Frank’s health necessitated ongoing supervision and help with everyday tasks, doctor appointments, and general well-being.
The court acknowledged that Frank needed a guardian to watch out for his health and safety and emphasized that without that kind of support, Frank stood the risk of his illness getting worse.
It is so sad to hear about Frank Fritz. We’re sending him our best wishes and thoughts for a quick recovery. Giving your loved ones access to this information can help them stay up to date on the happenings with their favorite TV host.
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