I take it that everyone of us must navigate our own lives and take responsibility for our decisions? However, it is in our nature as humans to want to help friends who are actually in need. However, what would you do if your friend—the one you always stand by—started confiding in you about all of their issues, repeatedly, and with no sign of stopping? This Reddit member is exactly in that predicament. She wondered if she was managing the matter with her buddy correctly, so she looked to the large internet community for advice.
I(32F) am a single mother of two kids (6M and 5m F). I am a single mother by choice (my kids are donor conceived).
I am lucky enough to have a good job (French teacher in a private school), and a paid off house (parents’ life insurance and inheritance).
Before I had either of my kids, I made sure to have a year’s living expenses saved, then I would take a sabbatical to recover from birth, as well as bond with my kids. While on sabbatical, I still tutor some kids for some extra income.
My friend (34F), just had a baby 2 months ago. She is the breadwinner in her household, and her husband has been unemployed since he was laid off during COVID.
It was great to be pregnant at the same time, as well as having a friend with a newborn. But it has turned sour.
She has been saying how jealous she is of me being able to take off a whole year from work, how she would have loved to not worry about losing their home, how she doesn’t even have a couple hundred dollars in her savings account, let alone a whole year’s worth of living expenses….
I usually ignore it, or brush it off, because I kind of can understand the stress she is under.
Well, starting about 10 days ago, she started hinting at not being able to afford daycare, and any mention of her husband taking care of their kid is brushed off. Then she started remarking on how much free time I must have, which I deflected by saying -truthfully- that being a single mom to a baby and a small kid left me no free time actually.
Then last night she came out with it, and asked if I could “do her a favor” and watch her kid while she’s at work. I was firm, but polite, when I said that I couldn’t, that I am not capable of watching two kids under 6 months.
She started almost begging me, saying she can’t afford daycare, and if she is not back at work, she will lose her job, and they will end up homeless. I again brought up her husband, and she said that he was not good with kids, and isn’t capable of taking care of her kid.
I kept saying no, she kept pushing, until it escalated to her calling me heartless, and me telling her that it’s not my problem she chose to have a kid with a useless man.
Now she blocked me, I am feeling very guilty about what I said, and feeling like an AH.
Many individuals were lying face down, and a bystander observed them. When he discovered why, he was completely amazed.
It makes perfect sense that children are big fans of superheroes. They never fail to save the day because of their amazing bravery, superhuman skills, and gorgeous attire. They have a large following and are praised and acknowledged for their valiant actions.
Alright, that’s excellent. Let us discuss the world’s real heroes. Regarding those who, in spite of everything, move boldly. They cannot lift automobiles with just their hands, they cannot fly, and they are not resistant to laser radiation. Their bravery and tenacity are their assets.
Firefighters are highly skilled individuals who are capable of handling any circumstance that arises on the scene, including putting out big fires and building expansions. Even though they constantly run the risk of losing their life, they are committed to saving the day and have a well-defined mission.
Like the rest of us, these folks lead regular lives. Their needs, wants, aspirations, and dreams to come true are waiting for them back at home with their family.
Wildfires are extremely dangerous because of their rapid and unrelenting spread. When a fire burns healthy trees, it can cause further damage and destruction by spreading to populated areas, injuring or killing numerous animals, and destroying homes.
Extreme weather caused comparable problems in central Portugal, where the only things left were ash and death. The wildfire claimed the lives of over 60 people and injured over 100 more. Although more than 1,500 firefighters have been dispatched to the scene, they frequently fail to put out the fires.
Between battling the flames and taking part in rescue efforts, they don’t have much time for food or sleep. A bunch of firefighters were shocked to learn that they had a 30-minute snooze period. They exploited what few openings there were in the grass.
A bystander noticed them, snapped a picture, and posted it to the internet, where it went viral right away. Please feel free to look at the accompanying pictures and tell me more about these superheroes if you share my respect for them.
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