When it comes to Howie Mandel, the first thing that comes to mind is positivism and laughter.
According to IMDb, he started his career in showbiz by pure chance. A producer noticed him during an amateur night at the Comedy Store on the L.A. Sunset Strip during a vacation after his friends convinced him to try it out.
Today, Mandel is one of the most famous names in the world of entertainment. A TV celebrity, screenwriter, actor, producer, director, entrepreneur, and popular game show panelist/host, you name it, Mandel has tried it all and proved that he’s great in all of it.
Recently, however, he decided to open up about his mental state and confessed he’s been battling anxiety, ADHD, and OCD most of his life. The truth is that no one can really assume that someone as fun as Mandel could be going through such a thing.
“I’m living in a nightmare,” he declared. ” I work to ground myself. I love what I do and have a lovely family. However, I can also experience severe sadness from which I can never recover.”
This turned even worse during the COVID-19 pandemic when we were forced into lockdown. Mandel revealed to People magazine that there was no day the thought “we would die” didn’t cross his mind. But the fact that no one from his closest surrounding was affected gave him comfort.
Although he was diagnosed in his thirties, Mandal knows he had OCD and ADHD since forever. He, however, didn’t speak of his mental state openly because he believed it would affect his career. “My first reaction was that I’ve embarrassed my family,” he admitted. “Then I realized that nobody would hire someone who wasn’t stable. Those were my concerns.”
It was comedy that helped him during the toughest times in his life.
“My coping mechanism is finding the humorous,” he declared. “If I’m not smiling, I’m probably sobbing. And I’ve still held back on how horrible and dark it actually gets. In a way, comedy saved me. I feel very much at ease on stage. And when I have nothing to do, I retreat, which is not healthy
Mandel’s goal is to help raise awareness about mental illness and break the stigma.
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An Arrogant Passenger Leaned Back and Smashed My Laptop – Karma Caught Up with Him Before I Could Respond
I’m a single dad and my world crumbled when an entitled passenger’s reclined seat crashed back, shattering the laptop that held my little daughter’s future. Helpless at 30,000 feet, I watched my hopes nosedive until karma stepped in, leaving the arrogant man speechless.
“Daddy, do you have to go?” my 6-year-old daughter Dolly’s whisper felt like a knife to my heart as her tiny fingers clutched my sleeve. I scooped her up in my arms, holding her close as the departure announcement echoed through the terminal. How could I explain that leaving her, even for a short business trip, felt like leaving a piece of my heart behind? 
“I’ll be back before you know it, princess,” I said, gently tapping her nose. “And guess what? I’m going to bring you back that Barbie playhouse you’ve been dreaming about.”
Her face lit up like a firework on the Fourth of July. “Really, Daddy? You promise?”
“Cross my heart,” I replied, drawing an X over my chest. As I walked away to board my plane, I heard her excited chatter with my mom, who’d come to babysit.
“Grandma, Daddy’s gonna get me a Barbie house!” Dolly’s excited voice faded into the bustle of the airport. And each step towards the gate felt heavier than the last.
Now, as I sat in my cramped economy seat as the plane took off, those words echoed in my ears. I couldn’t let her down. Not my little girl. Not after everything we’d been through.
The weight of responsibility felt like a heavy millstone around my neck.
This business trip to Miami wasn’t just about a presentation or a potential promotion. It was about securing a future for Dolly, about making sure I could afford the heart surgery she needed in just three short months.
I glanced at my watch and sighed. Three hours until landing. Three hours to finish the project that had been sitting on my laptop for days, neglected while I juggled my day job and caring for a sick Dolly. Thank God for my mom, stepping in to help when I needed it most.
I pulled out my laptop. It was company property, worth more than my monthly salary. With a heavy sigh, I started working on my presentation.
This was my shot at a promotion, a chance to finally get ahead and start saving for Dolly’s operation. Just three more months, and we’d be facing that mountain. But first, I had to climb this hill.
As I typed, my mind wandered to Dolly’s mom. Cancer took her three years ago, leaving me to raise our daughter alone. Some days, it felt like I was drowning. But then Dolly would smile, and suddenly I could breathe again.
“Sir, would you like a drink?” The flight attendant’s voice snapped me back to reality.
“Just water, please,” I replied, my eyes never leaving the screen. “Thank you.”
As she moved on, I overheard the man in front of me bark an order. “Hey! You there! I want red wine. Make it snappy, and it better be the good stuff… not that cheap swill you usually serve.”
I glanced up, catching sight of a man in a pristine white suit and a young woman giggling beside him. They looked like they were heading to a wedding… or maybe a fancy funeral for common decency.
The flight attendant, visibly flustered, hurried to comply. “Of course, sir. Right away.”
“And make sure it’s properly chilled this time!” he shouted after her, loud enough to make several passengers turn and stare.
Shaking my head, I dove back into my work. Just a few more tweaks and this presentation would sing.
Suddenly, without warning, the seat in front of me slammed backward. The tray table jerked violently, nearly smashing into my laptop screen.
“Hey!” I shouted, my heart racing as I quickly pulled my laptop back from the edge of the tray. “What are you doing?”
Mr. White Suit twisted around, his face brimming with entitlement and disdain. “What’s your problem, dude?”
“You almost broke my laptop! Could you please put your seat up a bit? I’m trying to work here.”
His face darkened, twisting into an ugly sneer. “Look at you, glued to your precious little screen like some pathetic office drone. Maybe if you knew how to work with your hands like a real man, you wouldn’t be whining about your stupid computer.”
I took a deep breath, trying to stay calm. “Sir, I’m just asking for a little courtesy. This is important work.”
“Courtesy?” he spat. “I paid for this seat, and I’ll recline it as far as I damn well please. You want courtesy? Fly first class, you cheapskate!”
Before I could react, he slammed his seat back even further. This time, there was no avoiding it. The crack that followed might as well have been a gunshot.
I stared in horror at my laptop screen, now a spiderweb of shattered pixels. My project, my promotion, my daughter’s future — all of it GONE in an instant.
“Hey!” I shouted, tapping his shoulder. “You just broke my laptop!”
He turned, a smirk playing on his lips. “Aww, what a pity, shrimp. Guess you’ll have to learn how to fix things now! Maybe try turning it off and on again?” He let out a cruel laugh, his girlfriend joining in with a high-pitched giggle.
My vision went red. I saw Dolly’s face, her eyes wide with disappointment. “But Daddy, you promised…”
I stood up, fists clenched. “Listen, you entitled piece of—”
Suddenly, the seat in front of Mr. White Suit reclined with a thud.
His wine glass toppled, sending a cascade of red across his pristine suit. His phone clattered to the floor, the screen cracking on impact.
“What the—” he sputtered, jumping up. “You idiot! Look what you’ve done!”
The man in front turned around, confusion written across his face. “Excuse me?”
“Are you blind as well as stupid?” Mr. White Suit roared. “You ruined my suit! You broke my phone! Do you have any idea how much this outfit costs? It’s worth more than your entire wardrobe, you peasant!”
I sank back into my seat as a strange mix of satisfaction and guilt cloaked me.
Karma had stepped in where I couldn’t.
“Sir, please calm down,” a flight attendant intervened, hands raised placatingly.
“Calm down? Do you know who I am?” Mr. White Suit gestured wildly, wine dripping from his sleeve. “I could buy and sell this entire airline! I demand to speak to the pilot immediately!”
The flight attendant tried to reason with him. “Sir, the pilot is flying the plane. I’m sure we can—”
“I don’t want to hear your excuses!” he interrupted. “I want action! I want compensation! I want everyone on this miserable tin can to know that they’ve ruined my day!”
As the argument escalated, I quietly pulled out my phone. Thank God that I’d saved my presentation to my cloud drive. I might just be able to salvage this project after all.
Meanwhile, Mr. White Suit continued his tirade, his face turning as red as the wine staining his clothes.
“This is unacceptable! I’ve never been treated so poorly in my life! When my father hears about this he’ll—”
“Your father?” the man in front of him cut in. “How old are you, twelve? Grow up and take some responsibility for once in your life, dude!”
That was the last straw. Mr. White Suit lunged forward, his arms flailing.
In seconds, chaos erupted. Passengers jumped up to restrain him, while others shouted for the air marshal.
By the time we landed, Mr. White Suit had been moved to a different seat, his girlfriend looking mortified beside him. I caught his eye as we disembarked, and I swear I saw a flicker of shame there, quickly replaced by his usual sneer.
My boss was eagerly waving at me from the gate. “Dave! I got your message. What happened?”
I explained the situation, my heart racing. To my surprise, he just shook his head and chuckled.
“Sounds like quite the flight! Don’t worry about the laptop… we’ll get you a new one. Let’s focus on that presentation of yours.”
Relief flooded through me. “Thank you, sir. I won’t let you down.”
As we walked to the taxi stand, I pulled out my phone and dialed home.
“Daddy!” Dolly’s voice came through, bright as sunshine. “Did you get my Barbie house?”
I smiled, feeling lighter than I had in weeks. “Not yet, sweetheart. But I will. I promise.”
And this time, I knew I could keep that promise.
As Dolly chatted excitedly about all the things we’d do together once I returned home, I couldn’t help but think back to that fateful flight.
In a strange way, I almost felt grateful to Mr. White Suit. His awful behavior had reminded me of what really mattered in life.
It wasn’t about fancy suits or expensive gadgets. It wasn’t even about promotions or presentations. It was about the love in my daughter’s voice and the trust in her eyes when I made a promise. It was about working hard not for material things, but for the chance to see her smile and to give her the opportunities she deserved.
I’m relieved, happy, and awestruck by how karma works its magic… even at 30,000 feet in the air!
And who knows? Maybe somewhere out there, a certain rude passenger in a wine-stained white suit is reflecting on his behavior and learning to be a little kinder.
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