A three-year-old throws tantrums and begs his mother not to go to daycare. Worried, she goes in unannounced and what she sees shocks her.
“No, mommy, no!” Johnny threw himself on the floor and started screaming. Marla Evans sighed. Not again! She looked at her watch. If he threw a full tantrum, she would be late yet again.
She gazed at her three-year-old with exasperation. Johnny had been going to daycare for two years and always loved it. For the last week, out of the blue, he’d been making a scene, begging Marla not to take him.
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She’d spoken to her pediatrician, and the doctor had told her that toddlers often went through the ‘terrible threes.’ “Stop it!” Marla heard herself scream, then she saw the look of fear in her son’s eyes. Something wasn’t right.
Marla sat down on the floor next to Johnny and coaxed him into her lap. He sobbed, pressing his little face against hers. Marla decided this was more than a tantrum, but what could be wrong?
“Honey,” Marla said gently. “I’m sorry. Mommy didn’t mean to snap.” She rocked him until he stopped crying and asked gently, “Why don’t you like daycare anymore?”
Raising a child is about setting and respecting boundaries.
Johnny shivered in her arms and whispered, “I don’t like!”
“But why, sweetie?” Marla asked. “Are the other kids mean?” But Johnny wouldn’t answer. Marla sighed. “Baby, mommy needs to go to work, but I tell you what… I’m going to come and get you from daycare early today, OK?”
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Johnny sat up in her lap. “No lunch?” He looked up at her anxiously. “No lunch, mommy?”
Lunch? The worried mom frowned. What was happening with her son?
Marla dropped Johnny off after promising she’d fetch him before lunch. He walked into the daycare quietly but threw Marla a pleading look that left her heartbroken.
She went to work and asked her boss for the afternoon off to deal with a personal issue. Thankfully, her boss was a mom too and understood!
Marla was determined to get to the bottom of Johnny’s reluctance to go to daycare. She decided to drop in — not before lunchtime as she promised Johnny — but during the meal.
Johnny’s daycare didn’t allow the parents into the children’s playrooms or the dining room, but each door of the facility had a large, clear glass window. Hopefully, Marla would be able to see what — if anything — was going on.
When she arrived, the receptionist told her the children were having lunch. Marla walked to the dining room and peered in. The kids were all sitting at their tables, eating.
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A teacher or an assistant supervised each table. Marla quickly spotted Johnny. There was a woman Marla didn’t recognize sitting next to him.
As Marla watched, the woman picked up Johnny’s spoon, scooped up a portion of mashed potatoes, and pressed it against his lips. “Eat!” she cried. Johnny shook his head violently, his mouth firmly closed, tears running down his cheeks.
“Open your mouth and eat!” the woman said angrily. Johnny was looking deeply distressed. The woman cried, “You are going to sit here until you clear your plate!”
Marla saw a small portion of mince, mash, and vegetables left on Johnny’s plate, and she knew her son. Johnny was not a big eater; she never pushed it when he told her he’d had enough.
Johnny opened his mouth to protest, and the teacher quickly pushed the spoon in. Marla saw her son choke and sputter. She’d had enough! She opened the door and stormed in.
“Get away from my son!” she cried.
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The woman looked up, and her mouth hung open. “Parents aren’t allowed in the dining room!” she cried.
“Then they should be,” Marla said, reining in her anger. “Can’t you see Johnny’s had enough? He’s a healthy boy, but he is not a big eater. As an educator, you should know how traumatic force-feeding a child can be.
“Being forced to clean up the plate is an old-fashioned notion. You should be aware of the statistics and the causes of obesity and eating disorders in children.
“And one of them is making food an issue! My little boy is an active child, and if he feels he’s had enough, you need to respect that and not force him to eat.
“As for shoving food into a child’s mouth in that way, it is reprehensible! You should certainly know better. These children are not puppets for you to manipulate at will!
“They are little people with needs and a will of their own. If you don’t respect their boundaries, you teach them they don’t deserve respect. I don’t think that is a message you want to pass on!”
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The teacher flushed a bright red and got to her feet. “I never…” she cried.
“That’s a pity,” Marla said crisply. “Because if this happens again, I will ensure you are out of a job! I’m not sending my son to daycare to be brutalized!”
Marla walked over to Johnny and tenderly wiped his mouth. “Come on, honey,” she said gently. “Mommy promised you a treat this afternoon!”
Marla had a long talk with Johnny, and there was no tantrum the next morning. Over the next few weeks, she popped into the daycare at lunch times just to keep an eye on things.
The teacher never forced Johnny to eat again, and the boy recovered his good humor and enthusiasm.
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What can we learn from this story?
- Children and their boundaries should be respected. Johnny’s teacher was teaching him that adults had the right to impose their will on children against their welfare.
- Raising a child is about setting and respecting boundaries — theirs and ours. A child whose boundaries are not respected is insecure and has low self-esteem.
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Waitress Made Me Kneel in the Restaurant — Her Reason Shocked Me to Tears
On what would have been a celebration of our 50th anniversary, a seemingly normal dinner turned into a life-or-death ordeal. A brave waitress’s urgent command to kneel led to a surprising act of heroism and a heartfelt message from my late husband.
My name is Clara, and I’m a 78-year-old grandmother. Today would have been my 50th wedding anniversary with my late husband, Brian. We had a tradition of dining at a nice restaurant to celebrate, and I still do it to honor his memory.
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The restaurant was bustling. I felt a bit overwhelmed as I navigated my way to the table. The noise, the people, and the busy waitstaff made it hard for me to find my way. My heart pounded, both from the effort and the emotions this day always brings.
As I entered the restaurant, the familiar smell of delicious food greeted me. The soft clinking of cutlery and the hum of conversations filled the air. The lighting was dim and warm, just as Brian and I always liked it.
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I finally made it to my table, my favorite one by the window. I sat down and took a deep breath. The chair felt cold and unfamiliar without Brian sitting across from me. I could almost see him there, smiling at me, his eyes crinkling at the corners.
“Happy anniversary, love,” I whispered to myself.
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I glanced around, watching couples and families enjoying their meals. It reminded me of all the anniversaries Brian and I had celebrated here. We would hold hands across the table, laugh about old memories, and make new ones. Those were the best days of my life.
My excitement for the meal started to build. I picked up the menu and scanned it, though I already knew what I wanted. The special of the day was always our choice. Brian would joke, “Why change a good thing?”
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The waitress, a young woman with a kind smile, came over. “Hello, ma’am. Are you ready to order?”
“Yes, I’ll have the special, please,” I replied, smiling back at her.
She nodded and left to place my order. When she returned with my food, my heart sank. The plate was dirty, smudged with something I couldn’t quite identify.
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“Excuse me,” I said politely, “Could you please replace this plate? It’s not clean.”
“Of course, ma’am,” she replied, looking slightly flustered. “I’ll be right back.”
She took the plate and hurried back to the kitchen. I sat there, waiting, my excitement dampened by the small disappointment.
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A few minutes later, the waitress returned with a clean plate. But instead of setting it down in front of me, she leaned in close and urgently said, “You need to get on your knees immediately, ma’am!”
I blinked, shocked. “Why?” I asked, my voice shaking.
“Please, just do it now,” she repeated, her voice trembling. Her eyes darted towards the entrance.
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I hesitated, my mind racing. Why was she asking me to do this? But there was something in her voice, a note of desperation that made me comply. Slowly, I slid off my chair and knelt beside my table.
As I knelt there, humiliation and confusion washed over me. Tears pricked my eyes. I glanced up at the waitress, hoping for an explanation. She quickly knelt beside me and whispered, “I’m so sorry, ma’am. There’s a man with a gun. Stay down and follow my lead.”
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My heart pounded in my chest. I glanced towards the entrance and saw him—a man with his hand tucked inside his jeans, looking around the restaurant suspiciously. Fear gripped me, making it hard to breathe.
“We need to stay calm,” the waitress continued, her voice steady but low. “He threatened to shoot if anyone moved. I needed to get you down without alerting him.”
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I nodded, tears streaming down my face. The reality of the situation hit me like a wave, and I felt a mix of fear and gratitude toward this brave young woman.
Just then, a loud crash came from the kitchen. Pots and pans clattered to the floor, and shouts erupted. The man near the entrance turned his attention toward the noise, his eyes narrowing.
“This is our chance,” the waitress whispered. She grabbed my hand, her grip firm but reassuring.
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“Stay low,” she instructed.
We began to crawl, moving as quickly and quietly as possible. The floor was cold and hard beneath my knees, but I focused on the waitress, trusting her completely. My heart was pounding so loudly I was sure everyone could hear it.
We made our way to a small door marked “Storage.” The waitress opened it, and we slipped inside. She locked the door behind us, her hands shaking.
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“We should be safe in here,” she said, leaning against the door to catch her breath. “Just stay quiet.”
I nodded, my breathing ragged from the fear and exertion. The small room was cramped, filled with shelves of supplies. The waitress sat down beside me, her face pale but determined.
“Thank you,” I whispered, tears streaming down my face.
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The waitress gave me a small smile. “My name is Emily. I’m sorry I had to scare you like that, but I couldn’t think of any other way to keep you safe.”
“You did the right thing,” I replied, my voice trembling. “You saved my life.”
Emily looked down, her eyes glistening. “My brother is a cop. He taught me what to do in situations like this. And…you remind me of my grandma. I couldn’t let anything happen to you.”
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I was touched by her words. “Thank you, Emily. You were very brave.”
Emily reached into her apron’s pocket and pulled out a small, beautifully carved wooden box. “I almost forgot,” she said. “Your husband left this with the manager for you. I was supposed to give it to you today.”
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My hands trembled as I took the box from her. It was exquisite, with delicate carvings that looked like they were made with love. I opened it slowly, revealing a letter and two walnut shells inside.
Tears welled up in my eyes as I recognized the handwriting on the letter. It was from Brian. With a trembling voice, I began to read aloud.
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My Dearest Clara,
Today marks our 50th wedding anniversary, and although I am not there with you in person, I am always with you in spirit. This little box holds a part of our love story that started all those years ago. Do you remember the first time we met? You gave me a walnut as a token of our first encounter. I have kept these shells with me ever since, as a reminder of that beautiful day and the countless wonderful moments we’ve shared.
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My love for you has only grown stronger with each passing year. You have been my strength, my joy, and my everything. I hope you continue this tradition and feel my love surrounding you today and always.
Forever yours, Brian
As I finished reading, tears streamed down my face. I held the walnut shells in my hand, their smooth surfaces bringing back a flood of memories. Brian had always been sentimental, and this gesture was so like him.
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Emily gently placed a hand on my shoulder. “He loved you so much,” she said softly.
Just then, we heard a knock on the door. “Police, open up!” a voice called.
Emily quickly unlocked the door, and a group of officers entered, their faces stern but calm. “Are you alright, ma’am?” one of them asked gently.
I nodded, still overwhelmed by the emotions from the letter and the terrifying experience. “Yes, I’m alright now.”
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The officers led us out of the storage room. I saw the man being handcuffed and escorted out of the restaurant. No shots had been fired, and everyone was safe. The restaurant slowly returned to normal, though the atmosphere was still tense.
One of the officers, a tall man with kind eyes, approached us. “Emily here did a brave thing,” he said. “She kept you safe and helped us apprehend the suspect.”
I turned to Emily, my eyes filled with gratitude. “Thank you for saving my life,” I said, my voice trembling.
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She smiled, though her eyes were still filled with concern. “I just did what I had to do. I’m glad you’re okay.”
As I left the restaurant, clutching the precious box and letter, I couldn’t help but think about the unexpected twists that day had taken. What began as a humiliating and confusing moment turned into an act of heroism that I would never forget. Emily’s quick thinking and courage had not only saved my life but had also given me a beautiful connection to Brian’s enduring love
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