Calling someone “fat” can be a hurtful insult. But why is that?
This question came up when a mother named Allison shared her story about a recent swimming trip with her children. When her daughter called her fat, 30-year-old Allison had a clever response, and her message is now spreading quickly online.
Allison Kimmey began dieting when she was just 14 years old. She managed to stay at a size two to four through graduate school, but it was tough, and she wasn’t happy. Three years ago, at age 27, Allison reached a size eight and realized she would be much happier if she stopped fighting against her weight gain.
To motivate herself, Allison started an Instagram account, @allisonkimmey, where she shares pictures and inspirational messages. Her body positivity spreads joy and encourages her followers, but her important message doesn’t always reach everyone.
**Me:** “Actually, everyone, every single person in the world has fat. But each of us has different amounts.”
**Her brother:** “Oh right! I have some to protect my big muscles! But you have more than me.”
**Me:** “Yes, that’s true. Some people have a lot, and others don’t have much. But that doesn’t mean one person is better than the other. Do you both understand?”
**Both:** “Yes, mama.”
**Me:** “So can you repeat what I said?”
**Them:** “Yes! I shouldn’t say someone is fat because you can’t just be fat, but everyone HAS fat, and it’s okay to have different fat.”
**Me:** “Exactly right!”
Not only did Allison want to teach her children how to talk to others, but she also felt it was important to spread the message that everyone is equal, no matter their body shape. Now, her post on Instagram has gone viral.
“If I shame my children for saying it, then I’m proving that it’s an insulting word and continuing the stigma that being fat is unworthy, gross, comical, and undesirable,” writes Allison.
Kitten’s Final Hug with Dying Mother Cat Leads to an Astonishing Outcome
Today began like any other as we set out to feed the local street cats, unaware that we were about to witness a story that would deeply move us and remind us of the powerful bond between a mother and her child.
Amid the familiar feline crowd, our eyes were drawn to a tiny kitten nestled tightly against its mother. The scene was bittersweet—while the kitten clung to her in search of comfort, the mother cat lay still and unresponsive. Tragically, she had been struck by a passing bicycle.
Acting quickly, we approached the pair, our hearts aching for the kitten desperately holding onto its injured mother. Gently, we lifted the motionless cat, the kitten refusing to part from her side. With the kitten still clinging to her, we rushed them both to the nearest veterinary clinic, hoping to save the mother cat’s life.
While waiting anxiously for an update at the clinic, we were approached by a kind woman who shared unexpected news. She revealed that the injured mother had another litter of kittens at her home nearby. The thought of those kittens waiting for their mother gave us renewed determination, and we set out immediately to bring them to safety.
Upon arriving at the woman’s home, we carefully gathered the remaining kittens and brought them to join their sibling at the clinic. As we watched over them, the bond between the tiny family strengthened our resolve to do everything we could to help their mother recover.
Days passed in tense anticipation. Each moment was filled with hope and quiet prayers for the mother cat’s survival. Then, the news we had longed to hear finally arrived—she had beaten the odds. Against all expectations, the mother cat’s strength and will to live had seen her through.
The moment of her reunion with her kittens was nothing short of magical. Tears welled in our eyes as we watched her lovingly nuzzle each of her babies, her affection a testament to the unbreakable bond they shared. It was a scene of pure joy and relief, a reminder of the resilience of life and the profound power of love.
As we said goodbye to the reunited family, our hearts swelled with gratitude. In the face of tragedy, compassion had paved the way for hope and healing. This experience was a poignant reminder that even in the smallest corners of life, the beauty of love and resilience shines brightly.
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