My Daughter Completely Forgot About My 90th Birthday

Hi there, this is Patty. I can declare with confidence that I have had a great and happy life after 90 wonderful years. Since my husband passed away a few years ago, Angie, my daughter, and I have mostly been spending our time together.

I was ecstatic as my ninetieth birthday approached. My daughter had assured me that she would come see me and spend the day with my grandchildren.

Imagining my grandchildren brings me constant joy. It reminds me of the times when my spouse and I raised Angie. My grandchildren remind me of those special occasions because they look so much like her.

They also have a father who looks like Angie’s ex-husband, John. I loved John so much that I was devastated by their split. The closest thing I’ve ever had to a son was John. He had a big heart and was friendly. He still sends me a Christmas card every year, even now. While I had hoped for John and Angie to be back together, life has other ideas.

When my birthday finally arrived, I was overjoyed. But as the day went on, my enthusiasm gave way to anxiety. It was getting close to lunchtime, and Angie had not responded to me. I called her multiple times, but she didn’t pick up.

When I tried to call Angie again, the call went straight to voicemail. Since she was driving, I thought she wouldn’t be able to respond. But as time went on, it became evident that, like many other days, I would be spending this birthday alone.

I was about to give up when someone rang the doorbell. If my knees weren’t so weak, I would have immediately jumped up in excitement. I was quite happy with my birthday present from Angie and the kids, since it had been a long time.

My heart fell when I saw a manly figure through the glass of the entrance. When I answered the door, I saw a happy John with gifts and flowers in his hands.

“Happy Birthday, Mom!” He gave a kind greeting.

“John? Oh, you didn’t have to,” I said, startled and happy at the same time.

“A small token to honor your amazing day,” John stated as he passed the presents.

Is that the chocolate of my dreams? You remembered, huh? My cheeks flushed with joy as I exclaimed.

How could I overlook that? It’s all you ever eat,” John laughed in response.

You’re overly charming. Could you come to supper with me? Asking him to come in, I did.

Oh no. Not that I would want to bother. You must have plans. John answered modestly, “I just wanted to drop off your presents and see your gorgeous self.

“That’s absurd! I would like the company, and I don’t have anything planned. I insisted, “Plus, I’m making apple pie.”

“Pineapple pie? John chuckled as he entered, “You ought to have led with that.”

John, like my late spouse, is an amazing chef. John did the majority of the cooking while we were together during the day. I was just happy to have the company. It was during supper that John finally inquired about Angie.

Will Angie and the children be joining us then? I would really like not think that I was ambushing her or doing anything similar. Although I really didn’t plan to remain, I’m pleased I did, John remarked.

“That’s absurd! We are family since you are my grandchildren’s father. And unfortunately, I don’t think Angie will come with us today,” I sadly said.

“Oh, that’s disappointing to hear. John said, “You shouldn’t spend your birthday by yourself.

“I’m not alone now, son, thanks to you,” I murmured, taking hold of his hand. “John, thank you.”

“No issue. Would you mind telling me why she didn’t come? or the children, at any rate? They enjoy having time with you, John continued.

“They were meant to arrive, but Angie won’t take my calls. I genuinely don’t know what transpired, but I have no doubt she will contact me again,” I remarked.

“I don’t know what’s going on with her, but she ought to at least drop the kids off. I’m going to call her,” John urged.

To my astonishment, Angie answered the phone when John called her. John later explained to me the reason behind my daughter’s birthday stand-up.

As it happens, the kids, Angie, and her new boyfriend are all on vacation. She kept it from everyone! John told me, clearly distressed.

“Trip? Did she not inform anyone, too? Why would she act in such way? I enquired.

“Patty, your guess is as good as mine. How can she get away with taking my kids and without saying anything? John replied, looking just as confused.

Oh no. This is really disheartening. Furthermore, who is this man? I was even more perplexed as I answered, “I had no idea Angie had a boyfriend.

She had made a casual reference, but an entire vacation? It seems that they had been organizing it for approximately a month. I apologize, Patty, but I think your daughter went too far this time, John stated in a frustrated tone.

I unhappily answered, “Yes, this is disappointing.”

I was shocked to hear the news. Angie could have at least informed me that she wouldn’t be available. I spoke with Angie later. The damage was done, but she said she would see the kids as soon as possible. I was truly saddened, but I will always adore my daughter.

John’s presence thankfully lessened the blow. But Angie’s actions caused a serious wound. I don’t know how to trust her at this point. How should I respond in this circumstance?

My FIL Demanded That I Pay $6000 for His Retirement Trip, So My Wife and I Taught Him a Good Lesson

My FIL Demanded That I Pay $6000 for His Retirement Trip, So My Wife and I Taught Him a Good Lesson

Retired FIL’s cruise invite turned $6000 shocker leads to a clever family counterplot. A budget-friendly voyage, a faux breakdown, and a cheeky postcard teach lessons in financial wisdom and family respect, steering through high seas drama to a harmonious resolution.

So, my father-in-law, George, recently retired and decided to celebrate big time. He invited the entire family, including my wife, Sarah, our kids, and me, on a cruise. We were all thrilled, especially the kids, who packed their bags a week in advance, buzzing with excitement.

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Mother, father and twin girls stacked on top of each other | Source: Getty Images

Now, let me paint you a picture: we’re a happy, middle-class family. We work hard, save up for rainy days, and occasionally splurge on family vacations. So, this cruise invitation seemed like a stroke of luck, a perfect getaway to celebrate George’s retirement. The anticipation was building, and tomorrow was supposed to be the day we set sail into this fantastic adventure.

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Family having dinner on Christmas eve | Source: Getty Images

But here’s where things took a jaw-dropping turn. George casually asked me to check my email for the tickets. I thought, “Great, let’s get those boarding passes printed and ready!” But when I opened the email, my excitement crashed harder than a wave during a storm. There wasn’t just a ticket confirmation. Oh no, there was a message from George saying, “Transfer the money to my bank account,” accompanied by a whopping $6000 bill for the cruise!

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Shocked astonished man in eyeglasses looking at laptop screen while sitting on sofa at home. Facial expression – wow | Source: Getty Images

I stared at the screen, thinking it had to be a mistake. Surely, George wouldn’t invite us on a trip and then hand us the bill, right? Wrong! When I called him to ask what the heck was going on, he dropped the bomb: “We had a family talk and decided that you should cover everyone on this trip because you’re the ‘man of the house,’ earning good money now that I’m retired.”

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Senior male with Technology | Source: Getty Images

I was speechless. We’ve always been generous with family, but this was beyond anything I could fathom. It’s not like we’re swimming in cash—we have bills, a mortgage, and kids’ education to think about. This $6000 bill was not in our budget, and George’s entitlement felt like a slap in the face.

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Businessman using mobile phone in textile factory | Source: Getty Images

I tried to reason with him, hoping he’d see how unreasonable this was. But no, he was adamant that we should foot the entire bill, even suggesting we take out a loan if necessary! “George, about this cruise bill… We were really taken aback by the cost. It’s a lot more than we anticipated.”

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Senior man with hearing aid on cell phone | Source: Getty Images

“Well, you’re the provider in the family now. I’ve done my part, and it’s time for you to step up,” said George nonchalantly.

“But George, we can’t just pull out $6000 like it’s nothing. We have our own financial plans and responsibilities.”

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Worried man sitting on sofa using cell phone | Source: Getty Images

George shrugged. “You have a stable job, don’t you? I don’t see why you’re making such a fuss. Just get a loan or figure it out. It’s for family, after all.”

That chat felt like talking to a brick wall. George was adamant that because I’m married to his daughter and doing well, I should cover the entire trip. His lack of understanding was astounding.

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A gray-haired elderly man enjoys his morning coffee on the terrace | Source: Getty Images

Afterwards, I relayed everything to Sarah. We sat in our living room, tension hanging in the air like a thick fog.

Sarah was visibly upset. “I can’t believe Dad is doing this. It’s like he’s completely disregarded our financial situation.”

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A young woman is sitting on the yellow couch at home with her head in her hands | Source: Getty Images

“He’s stuck on this idea that I should bear the whole cost because I’m the ‘man of the house.’ It’s ridiculous.” I sighed deeply.

Sarah started pacing back and forth. “We can’t just give in to his demands. But the kids… they’d be heartbroken if we canceled now.”

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Young woman sitting on sofa, looking at distressed man at table | Source: Getty Images

We were torn between our financial sanity and the kids’ happiness. The conversation went round and round, with both of us feeling trapped between a rock and a hard place.

After a while, Sarah finally stopped to look at me. “There’s got to be a way to sort this out without jeopardizing our finances or disappointing the kids.”

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Businessman and businesswoman on a meeting | Source: Getty Images

We spent the rest of the night brainstorming, trying to concoct a plan that wouldn’t end with us resenting George or saddling ourselves with debt.

After much debate and distress, Sarah and I finally hatched a plan that turned the tables in the most unexpected way.

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Hispanic couple having difficulty paying bills online | Source: Getty Images

First off, let me say that Sarah is a genius. Late one night, after endless discussions and what felt like a million cups of coffee, she had a lightbulb moment. “Why don’t we just book a separate, more affordable cruise for us and the kids?” she suggested, her eyes sparkling with a mix of mischief and determination. “We can still have a family vacation, just without the financial strain and… George’s company.”

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Smiling young woman in office looking sideways | Source: Getty Images

It was brilliant. We found a modest cruise that was set to sail around the same time as George’s lavish extravaganza. It was perfect for our budget and still promised loads of fun for the kids. We booked it right away, feeling a mix of relief and excitement.

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Close up photo beautiful she her business lady hand arm head raised up laugh laughter big salary income earnings genius startup notebook table sit office chair wearing specs formal-wear shirt | Source: Getty Images

But the real kicker? We concocted a little scheme to make a point to George. On the day of departure, we were all supposed to drive to the port together. Everything was going smoothly until, just a few blocks from George’s house, I pulled over. “Oh no, I think the car’s broken down!” I exclaimed, feigning panic.

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Frustrated upset young man looking at scratches and dents on his car outdoors | Source: Getty Images

George, already in high spirits about the cruise, was flustered. “What? Now? But we can’t miss the ship!”

With our best acting skills, Sarah and I insisted he go ahead without us. “Don’t worry, we’ll sort this out and catch up with you,” Sarah assured him, hiding her grin.

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Portrait of young woman in autumn | Source: Getty Images

So, George and his entourage went on without us, clueless about our actual plan. Meanwhile, we headed to a different port and embarked on our delightful, budget-friendly cruise.

Now, for the pièce de résistance: Before we left, we’d arranged with George’s cruise company to make a special announcement. Just as they set sail, the captain cheerfully announced, “Welcome aboard! Thanks to the generous contribution from our esteemed guest, George, you’re all upgraded to an all-expenses-paid experience with premium amenities!”

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Portrait of a ship crew | Source: Getty Images

So, after we executed our plan and set sail on our own budget-friendly cruise, we were buzzing with anticipation about how things were unfolding on George’s luxury liner. According to a few relatives who were in on our plan and went on the cruise with George, the announcement about his supposed ‘generous contribution’ for the premium upgrades made quite the splash.

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Business people applauding while attending conference or seminar | Source: Getty Images

They told us that when the captain made the announcement, thanking George for his grand gesture, the entire ship erupted in applause. George was visibly confused and utterly mortified, trying to wave off the cheers and explain the misunderstanding. But of course, the more he protested, the more people praised his ‘generosity’ and ‘big heart.’ The relatives said it was like watching a comedy show, with George as the unwitting star.

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Shot of a senior businessman standing against a grey studio background with his face in his hands and looking shocked | Source: Getty Images

Meanwhile, on our end, we were having the time of our lives. Our cruise might not have had the lavish amenities of George’s, but it was perfect for us. The kids were having a blast with all the onboard activities, and Sarah and I could finally relax, knowing we hadn’t broken the bank or caved to unreasonable demands.

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Woman writing postcard by swimming pool | Source: Getty Images

In a moment of cheeky inspiration, Sarah suggested we send George a postcard. “Greetings from our actual cruise! Thanks for the lesson in standing our ground and managing our finances wisely. Enjoy your ‘generosity’! Love, your financially savvy in-laws.”

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Parents with children (10-12) talking near rail on cruise ship | Source: Getty Images

As we enjoyed the simpler pleasures of our cruise, I couldn’t help but reflect on the absurdity of the situation. We had managed to teach George a lesson in respect and boundaries, all while ensuring our family still got to enjoy a much-needed vacation.

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This work is inspired by real events and people, but it has been fictionalized for creative purposes. Names, characters, and details have been changed to protect privacy and enhance the narrative. Any resemblance to actual persons, living or dead, or actual events is purely coincidental and not intended by the author.

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