“I’m fine, thanks,” I smiled, totally mesmerized by my son’s choice. “You look wonderful, Layla!”
At that moment, I had no clue how this woman would soon come into our lives and pull my son away from me. She seemed so nice; I never would have guessed just how cunning she really was.
Toby and Layla tied the knot just six months after our first meeting. I was so happy for my son as he started a new chapter of his life, and my heart was full of good wishes for him. I remember how I couldn’t stop weeping when my boy said his vows like a grown-up man.
Not long after the wedding, Toby and Layla invited me over to their place for lunch. I thought it would be a nice bonding session with my daughter-in-law since it was just the three of us, but it was anything but that.
Toby had asked me to be there at 2 p.m., but I arrived about 10 minutes late, and Layla took that as an opportunity to create a scene.
“Why are you so late, Jennifer?” she asked as soon as I stepped inside the house. I couldn’t see Toby anywhere near the entrance. “I’ve been waiting for you for so long!”
“I… I got late because of the traffic,” I stammered, taken aback by the unexpected confrontation.
“I don’t like hosting people who can’t value my time,” she muttered.
“I’m sorry for that, Layla,” I apologized. “But it was just 10 minutes.”
“I don’t care if it was 10 minutes or 10 hours,” she shot me an angry look. “You need to be on time when you come to my place, underst—”
“Oh, Mom! You’re here!” Toby interrupted. “How are you, my lovely lady?”
“I’m fine, Toby,” I said, hugging him, still reeling from Layla’s behavior. “How are you, my love? Looks like you haven’t been eating well.”
“Nah, I’m good, Mom,” he smiled. “What were you guys talking about?”
“Your wife was say—”
“Nothing, babe,” Layla cut me off. “I was just telling her how beautiful she looks today.”
“Yeah?” Toby’s gaze shifted from his wife to me. “My mom always looks the best!”
At that point, I was stunned by Layla’s behavior. Why was she being so sweet to me in front of Toby? And why didn’t she let me tell him what she had said earlier?
I spent the rest of the afternoon at their house, observing how Layla effortlessly switched on her sweet personality whenever Toby was around. But when he wasn’t looking, she’d throw mean remarks to make me feel unwelcome.
That day marked the beginning of my strained relationship with my daughter-in-law.
Then, one day, I noticed how Toby began taking her side whenever Layla and I argued in front of him.
“Layla’s right, Mom,” Toby said one day when we were at a restaurant deciding what to order for dinner. “We don’t need a large bowl of salad. It’s just the three of us. We’ll manage with a small bowl.”
“See, I’ve been telling your mother to order the small bowl, but she never listens to me,” Layla chuckled. “I don’t know why she never trusts me.”
She played the victim in front of him, and my poor boy always fell for it. I don’t blame him; he had seen his father always side with me. But I wasn’t like Layla. I wasn’t pretending to be a good daughter-in-law in front of my husband.
Layla’s behavior toward me didn’t change until the day she called me. I was genuinely surprised to see her name on my phone screen.
“Hi, Jen!” she chirped through the phone.
Jen? I thought. That’s weird.
“Hi, Layla,” I played along, trying to sound as sweet as possible. “How are you?”
“I’m good,” she said. “I was wondering if I could borrow your car tomorrow. Would that be okay with you?”
“My car?” I asked.
“Yeah,” she sighed. “Actually, I was supposed to visit my friend today. She lives a few hours away, but I couldn’t go because my car broke down. The mechanic says it’ll take a few days before he can fix it.”
“Oh, my! Sounds like there’s a major problem,” I said, genuinely concerned.
“I was so upset, but then Toby suggested I ask if you could lend me your car for a day,” she continued. “I’ll be back in a week.”
A week? I thought. That’s a lot.
But I felt bad for her. She sounded desperate, and she mentioned Toby had suggested it, so I didn’t want to let her down. I also saw it as a chance to mend our relationship.
“Sure, I don’t mind,” I said. “You can come over today if you want.”
And that was one of the biggest mistakes of my life.
A week later, Layla and Toby returned my car, but I couldn’t believe my eyes when I saw it. It was covered in scratches, dents, and dust. And the inside? It smelled like rotten onions!
“What have you done to my car?” I spat out. “What happened?”
“Excuse me?” she said, squinting her eyes as if I’d said something outrageous. “What did I do to your car? It was like this when I picked it up the other day.”
“Stop it, Layla!” I yelled at her. “Stop lying.”
“You think I’m lying?” she snapped, turning to Toby. “Babe, look at her! She’s accusing me of lying! How dare she?”
“Mom, Layla’s right,” Toby said. “She told me your car was like this when she picked it up the other day. She’s not lying.”
“Toby? Are you serious?” I stared at him in shock, realizing there was no point in arguing with them.
I had no proof, and neither did she. But Toby sided with her because he was so blindly in love with her.
I realized that arguing might even push my son away, so I decided to teach Layla a lesson instead. I spent the night researching online and stumbled across an incredible idea. A quick call to the nearby pet shop, and my plan was in motion.
The next night, I drove over to their place armed with animal attractant sprays. I carefully sprayed them all over their backyard, driveway, and front porch, making sure to stay out of sight.
With the lights off, I knew they were asleep. I quickly executed my plan and quietly drove away, feeling a mix of nerves and satisfaction.
I was certain this would teach Layla not to mess with me again.
The next morning, I woke up to my phone ringing. It was Toby.
“Mom, I need help!” he cried over the phone.
“What happened, honey?” I asked, feigning ignorance. “Are you okay?”
“We just woke up, and it’s awful here! The yard stinks, and wild animals have turned our place into a toilet! The whole house smells horrible, and we don’t know what to do!”
I secretly smirked, listening to him rant about the mess. The irony was delicious.
“Oh, my!” I pretended to be surprised. “That sounds horrible. I guess that’s what happens when you ruin someone else’s property.”
I don’t know if Toby caught my meaning, but I’m sure his clever wife knew those animals didn’t show up by chance. She had to know it was me, her oh-so-nice mother-in-law, who never fought back before.
Since that day, Layla hasn’t dared to mess with me. We met at a dinner once, and she didn’t try to be rude or complain about me wasting her time. Meanwhile, Toby started calling me regularly, checking in to see how I was doing.
I guess my dear husband Nathan was right after all. My son did need me to pull him out of the trance Layla had drawn him into. He needed me to stand up for myself and set a boundary his wife wouldn’t dare cross again.
What would you have done if you were in my place?
Didn’t realize like this
Eggs are a kitchen staple—versatile, nutritious, and packed with protein. But what happens when you notice your egg carton has passed its expiration date? Can you still use them, or is it time to toss them out?
This is a common household dilemma, often leading to debates over food safety, expiration dates, and storage methods. Some people insist that expired eggs should never be eaten, while others claim they are safe weeks beyond the date.
So, what’s the truth? Let’s crack open the facts and settle this debate once and for all.
Understanding Egg Expiration Dates
One of the biggest sources of confusion is the expiration date printed on egg cartons. Many consumers assume that once this date has passed, the eggs are automatically bad or unsafe to eat. But that’s not entirely accurate.
Egg cartons typically have one of the following labels:
Sell-By Date – A guideline for retailers, indicating how long eggs should be displayed for sale. Eggs are still safe to eat beyond this date if stored properly.
Expiration Date (EXP) – This is the suggested last date for using the eggs, but not a strict safety deadline. Many eggs remain fresh for weeks past this date.
Pack Date (Julian Date) – A three-digit code that represents the day of the year the eggs were packed. For example, “001” means January 1st, while “365” means December 31st. Eggs can often remain good for four to five weeks after this date.
So, does an expired date automatically mean bad eggs? Not necessarily. The key lies in how eggs are stored and tested for freshness.
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How to Determine If Eggs Are Still Safe to Eat
Instead of relying solely on expiration dates, use simple and reliable tests to determine egg freshness.
1. The Float Test (Most Popular Method)
The float test is an easy and effective way to check an egg’s freshness. Here’s how:
Fill a bowl with cold water.
Gently place the egg into the water.
Observe the results:
- Fresh eggs sink and lay flat on the bottom.
- Slightly older eggs stand upright but remain at the bottom.
- Spoiled eggs float to the top and should be discarded.
Why does this work? Over time, air enters the egg through its porous shell, causing it to become more buoyant. Floating means there’s too much air inside, signaling that the egg is no longer fresh.
2. The Sniff Test
Crack the egg open and give it a quick sniff. If you notice a strong sulfur-like or rotten smell, the egg is bad and should not be eaten. Fresh eggs have a mild or neutral scent.
3. The Visual Test
Look at the egg’s: Egg white: A fresh egg has a thick, slightly cloudy egg white. A watery or runny white suggests it’s older but still safe. Yolk: A bright yellow or orange yolk is a good sign, while a flattened yolk can indicate age. Unusual discoloration: If you see dark spots, mold, or pinkish hues, throw the egg away immediately.
The Science Behind Egg Freshness
What makes eggs go bad over time? The answer lies in their natural structure and storage conditions.
- Eggshells are porous, meaning air and moisture can pass through over time. This process accelerates if eggs are not stored properly.
- Carbon dioxide and moisture loss cause eggs to become less dense, affecting their texture and taste.
- Refrigeration slows bacterial growth, keeping eggs fresh for much longer.
If eggs are kept in the refrigerator, they can stay safe to eat for up to 4-5 weeks after the pack date. However, eggs stored at room temperature spoil much faster.
Common Misconceptions About Expired Eggs
“Eggs become unsafe the moment they expire.”
Not true! If stored correctly, eggs remain good for weeks past their expiration date.
“If an egg has a runny white, it’s bad.” Not necessarily. A runny egg white means the egg is older, but it can still be safe to eat if there are no bad smells or discoloration.
“You can’t eat raw eggs if they’re past the expiration date.” While fresh eggs are best for raw consumption, properly stored eggs past their expiration date can still be used for baking and cooking as long as they pass the freshness tests.
Video : Staying Fresh: Understanding Egg Expiration
Health Risks of Eating Spoiled Eggs
While most expired eggs are still safe, consuming truly rotten eggs can pose health risks. Spoiled eggs may contain bacteria like Salmonella, which can cause food poisoning.
Symptoms of food poisoning from bad eggs include:
- Stomach cramps
- Nausea and vomiting
- Diarrhea
- Fever and chills
If you suspect an egg is spoiled, it’s better to be safe than sorry—throw it out.
Practical Tips for Storing Eggs Safely
To extend the shelf life of eggs and keep them fresh longer, follow these storage tips:
Store eggs in the refrigerator – Keep them at or below 40°F (4°C) to slow bacteria growth. Keep them in their original carton – This prevents moisture loss and protects eggs from absorbing strong odors. Avoid storing eggs on the fridge door – The temperature fluctuates every time the door is opened. Instead, keep them on a middle shelf where the temperature is more stable. Wash eggs only before using them – Washing eggs can remove their protective coating, making them more vulnerable to contamination. Use older eggs for baking and cooking – If your eggs are past their expiration date but still pass the float and sniff tests, use them for scrambled eggs, baking, or boiling instead of eating them raw.
Resolving Disagreements Over Expired Eggs
If you and your partner or family members disagree about eating expired eggs, here’s how to handle it:
Communicate openly – Discuss concerns and agree on a testing method (like the float test) before making a decision. Compromise – If one person is uncomfortable with using older eggs, use them for non-direct consumption (baking, frying at high heat, etc.). Rely on expert recommendations – Food safety experts emphasize sensory tests over printed dates.
Final Thoughts: Are Expired Eggs Safe to Eat?
Egg expiration dates can be misleading, but understanding how to check for freshness can prevent unnecessary waste. While eggs do not instantly spoil after the expiration date, proper storage and freshness tests are essential for safe consumption.
Next time you find yourself debating whether to eat or toss expired eggs, remember: a simple float or sniff test is all you need to make the right decision!
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